Hey all,
So i was dragged to a strip club on saturday night with a big group of friends (guys and girls) and ended up getting separated from the group when they all left to another club and i went back inside to find a friend...when i was waiting for my friend to leave one of the private rooms, one of the dancers came and sat down next to me and started talking. we ended up talking for a while and she insisted that i take her number and real name. even though she insisted that she wasnt trying to take my money i insisted that we go into one of the back rooms for some privacy. i ended up paying for two dances from her and when she was on top of me we started making out. there was definitely no resistance in terms of me kissing her but i was hesitant about the whole situation because it was hard for me to tell whether or not i was being hustled. anyways it is now tuesday and i sent her a text asking how she was doing and she responded. after several messages of small talk, i then asked when i could take her out to dinner. she has yet to respond to that message. I was wondering what you all think about this and what you think i should do in order to reaffirm the connection we had made when we met. any stories or previous similar experiences would be greatly appreciated. also, i am looking for fellow pua's in the san francisco area. i am completely new to this scene and would love to establish a network with others in the game...please let me know. thanks
-jayfat

Since I actually bounced at a Strip club for over a year I can probably tell you the bad news. She likely is attempting to hook you for cash, and when i say hook, i mean get as much money from as she can without actually humping you. I could be wrong but unless you are a rock star, coke dealer, tattoo artist, or established mad social proof at the club, that's my educated guess. She wont go to dinner with you but she likely will contrive some situation to part you from you money.

I predict you will get a text soon where she will sweetly invites you to a club she is working at to "hang out", she will try to sell you some more dances, while giving you the special boyfriend SPAM.

Let me know if I'm wrong.