I went out last night in NYC to work on some game. I'm a newbie.
I wound up attracting a girl (a 7.5) out of a three set of girls (she was with two 8's). The 7.5 and I wound up making out in a cab on our way to another bar with one of her girlfriends. I was unable to attract the 8 so I just continued to game the 7.5 for fun/practice. Had it turned into a one night stand I probably would have had sex just to have sex. It ended in a # close, and I'm def not following up for a day-2.
But I was wondering, is it a benefit or disservice to game girls you're not particularly drawn to?
I found a double edge sword in the scenario. On one hand I could definitely give off that "I don't give a shit" attitude that this girl LOVED. Pushing her off me while teasing each with our with my tongue as we made out, but on the other hand, I wasn't making any initiative to escalate any further (which over time can become a DLV).
The way i framed it in the moment was that this would be good to practice in field and an opportunity to calibrate and internalize and work on the delivery of some material.
What I learned most form the night... don't try to break the ice on the dance floor by sticking your ass out and smacking it trying to invite your target to dance. *shakes head* WTF was I thinking?... I blame the alcohol.
