me and girl A were there. girl B came and turned on her laptop. on her desktop background, there were 2 hot girls. I asked "who are those" she said "my friends"
I said "wow, your friends are hot, unlike you." not in a playful way, very serious.

girl A tells me "wow you are weird" to be honest, i didnt know what she meant. i said "what do you mean? I just think her friends are hot, whats the problem?" she says "no, the part were you said 'unlike you' "

then i tried to unweird things and it didnt work. I apologized and said I am just kidding, and girl B said "no, I am not offended, i know i dont look hot because i dont dress properly." i said "well, I care about personality, i dont care about how you look...wait, no i mean you look hot...i mean...it was just a joke."

no matter how much i tried to unweird things, it got worse and worse.

so in these situations, what are you supposed to do? do you just produly say "well, i am just a weird guy"?

When a gurl says u a weird srsly just give her a bitchslap, she will respect u cause u act alpha bishes love when u act alpha nomsayin

and yea OP u ARE weird

please respond

why are you saying i am weird? it's just a joke.

First of all idk what type of response you were expecting by saying that in a very "serious" way and then after she responded the way she did you tried to make it all better.

If you are going to say something like that you can't act like a bitch and try to make up for it unless you have some clever follow up.

To answer your question when a girl normally calls me weird I respond with "Thanks" and I continue on with the conversation or the interaction as if it didn't phase me.

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You need to learn how to flirt properly.

Though I must admit your topics do make me smile, you should be banned for trolling bartm. This is rediculous.

BTW the correct answer to "you're weird" after you said what you said is just stick to what you said. She'll either validate herself or kick you in the nuts. Depends on how she values herself and you.

I would recommend never saying to a girl she's ugly. If you must neg, please stick to her clothes or something she could change. And don't say it in a serious way. If you don't act weird, you don't get called weird and nothing has to be saved.

Sometimes stuff comes out of your mouth and you regret it the same moment, but it's almost impossible to fix. Once I was talking to a girl I actually really like and I think she's hot. She has a big nose, but it's very charming on her. I always teased her about it, but in a playful way, no big deal. So we were talking and she starts wiping her nose, and I say: Yeah, it's hard to miss it, isn't it? I then try to take the neg (insult, not a real neg) back, but it gets worse and worse, up to the point I tell her: When we were in elementary school, I thought you were the prettiest girl on the bus. LOL. Needles to say, the situation got ultra weird. Maybe it's just better to let it go and after a while come in with a genuine and sweet compliment. Idk, she doesn't seem to want to talk to me anymore LOL.

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I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

You really buried yourself with the "unlike you." however, the damage was done. I'd have said, "well, it's not that I don't think you're hot... But we'd probably never work together."

Her: "what, why?!"

You: "(insert future projection tease here)"

I'd probably say something relevant to the situation. I.e. if you have a lot in common, say something like "we have so much in common... At first we'd be crazy about each other, but after awhile it would turn into all fights and makeup sex."

Obviously you'd add to that, but it's one way I would have take it...

I said something really s2pid like many times... every failure is lesson. Just dont do something like that again.

Not at all.
This translates to 'i am a pussy and can not control this frame, take it from me.'

wouldn't of said you buried yourself, however, i like this, would work perfect.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

My honest suggestion would be accept it and Reframing using the yes.... and model.
Things like that could be a shit test, and you sent yourself spiraling downhill.

Better luck next time mate.

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There's some terrible advice here. Reframe it? Nah, fuck that. You were an asshole and you were caught out for it. The problem is that you said she's not hot, it's not how you reacted to her afterwards.
I'm sure there's some genuinely bad malicious people who can get results, but I have no time of day for those people.

I one time used the "Whose the designated slut?" line after I had been talking to a group of girls for awhile (it's taken from I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell), they looked at me, I started breaking down their body language and social structure (a habit of mine). One of the women said, "You're weird, you know that," in a complete dead pan uncertain manner, as if expecting me to sulk away.

I laughed, put my arm on her lower back, and said, "I get a whole lot weirder, but you can have a great time if you stick around." I ended up getting all their numbers, and calling the one that said i was weird and going out with her.

You can't let what a woman says rattle you, that's what I got from your post. You can be an asshole, as some people said you were, you can do almost anything you want (within reason), as long as you don't stutter over your words, or lose focus, and are unable to take control of the situation.

Another situation I had, I was saying in broad strokes how men need to learn to communicate better because a relationship should never be a debate. The woman snapped up, "You're wrong, I love debating with my boyfriend and fighting with him, any guy I date I love to debate every little issue I have."

"See, you just think you do. What you really want is to be able to communicate what you want. Unable to do that, unable to find a guy that can do that, you're convinced yourself that's what you want."

"No, I really like it."

"If you like it..." I went back and forth for about five statements, then looked to the table, and said, I'm debating with her because she said she liked it, but she looks like its making her a bit stressed. Her table began laughing and the girl who was cockblocking me all night, shut up instantly.

I don't claim to be a perfect Alpha, or any crap like that. But, when conversing with people, always being able to have an answer, even a non-sensical one, that allows you to stay dominant and unshaken, allows people to see you as someone of authority and control.