Yesterday night I went on a party with a Chinese girl I know from my university. First we had dinner with a couple of mutual friends but they had to leave early, so in the end it was just me and this girl dancing. By now I'm pretty sure she likes me and during the dancing she did not move away when I got closer to her, but I never touched her or did any kino. This is in general my sticking point: I'm much to shy to do kino even if I get clear IOIs. In the end I could see her getting bored and she left early. When I walked her to her bike she asked me which actrices I find pretty. No idea what that means...
I'm really frustrated by this, because we had really good vibes that night and my place was just 5mins away from the party. This is already the third party we went to without me doing anything. I'm pretty sure I'm close to the friendzone, probably by now I'm already in there. Is there any way I can rescue this? What shall I do next? Please help!

You've thrown away a lot of good opportunities...

Start being sexual, right now, the very next time you talk to her, immediately after you acknowledge each others presence, be sexual, if it's real life, touch her in anyway you can bring yourself to.

Also don't let her get bored, always try and lead her into situations where she's not going to be bored, she's relying on you to lead.

How exactly can I get sexual with her? I know this is a complete AFC question, but what exactly should I do? I cannot be too direct, because since I haven't done anything so it would completely shock her, wouldn't it?

Also, can anyone figure out why she asked me about famous women I find pretty? Is she wondering if she's my type?

This type of thinking will land you in the friend zone for your whole life pal. "shock her". Be bold. If you want to kiss her, do it. What do you mean "how exactly can i get sexual with her?" Have you ever kissed a girl before?

Yeah, she's trying to clue you in. She's wondering why you wont make a move on her, basically trying to figure out if you don't think shes attractive or what.. Just do her a favor, do yourself a favor, and make a move on her now. If it doesn't work out, then you learned for next time.

A good way to manage this is to just decide that every time you take any girl out for the first time, ever, you are going to try to kiss her at the end. Regardless of what happens on the date, how good or bad it goes, if you are still together at the end of it and she didnt ditch you for another guy or something haha, you kiss her when you say goodbye. There, it's settled. Your problems of hesistating to make moves are over. I think you'll be happy about the results involved in this mindset. Every single time dude, seriously.

yep, agree with guru. good advice

thanks guru. Indeed I have never kissed a girl. Sad but true...
So you're saying the next time I take her out I should just grab her and kiss her when I think it's appropriate? Should I say something before or just do it?

Oh I see! Yeah just go for it, she wants you to kiss her man. It's obvious, and the more girls you date, kiss and seduce, the more obvious it will become to you too. If she doesn't any more, then the only reason is because you waited so long.. But you are bound to have to learn this lesson and others similar to it atleast once in your journey to PUA, so don't think of it as a loss. Just learn!

You basically have it right - kiss her when you think it feels right. The problem is you don't have a good gauge of when it is right to kiss, or you would have done it already. My suggestion is for your next date, take her out dancing somewhere.. This has always been a jackpot for me. it's the perfect scenario for kino escalation.. Hold her hand when you lead her around, dance with her and get her all up on you.. then when you guys are in the moment, just use your hand to nudge her chin up slightly and kiss her. If there never ends up being a "moment", you still have the green light to kiss her at the end of the night because you have already done so much kino. As you are saying goodbye tell her she is fun, give her a hug, then pull away from the hug with your chest but dont let go with your arms (should be around her waist at ths point, not her neck) and then just kiss her. No fear man! Kissing is fun!

When I first started kissing a lot of girls, I had problems with my post-kiss game. It was like I was so excited that I got the goodbye kiss that sometimes I would end up walking away without even catching her gaze again afterwards or saying anything else. Pay close attention to this - when you kiss her, make sure that afterwards, you pull back and look her in the eyes, give her a big smile and say something like "later cutie" before you start to walk away.

Good luck, let us know how it goes!