guys i have a question

my brother read the book Venusian Arts and he got pretty good at it he knows the moves and the techniques but he always bring up stupid reasons not going out to bars and clubs because he is bald ..he had a hair transplant and there is a big scar behind his head(a straight scar) my point is that this brings him down a lot.

what brings him down is that if the girl ask him :

1) why is there a straight scar behind your head? (what should he say?)
or
2)did you get a hair transplant because it shows. (what should he say)

(this brings him down ALOT and because he is sensitive)

i know that you should look your best when you goto clubs or bars. but he doesn't see that he says your hair represents everything .i don't know how to push him forward but i'll do my best.

can you guys help me out, especially with the two questions on top.

Thanks a lot

gawd OP if this is rly u, u fuckin ugly, sorry but did u ever consider plastic surgery?

Phag ur such an ass. and i don't find this funny at all!

All trolls aside, he has to learn to be comfortable with it himself, before he can be comfortable with what other people think.

One of the best days of my life was the day I shaved my head clean.

Streamlined ftw.

Balding is not a choice... Shaved head is, it exudes confidence. Own it.

Hey dude, welcome to the forum! Well I think there are some things that your brother can do in his position: I think he can use this opportunity to get creative I.e. He could always wear a hat? Right? Try Cowboy Hats, Caps w/e get creative.

I think he can also work on some other points, work on some your strong points in order to sidetrack from the weaker points. In other words, invest a lot of time in working out, work on your body. What girl would want to turn someone away who takes great care of himself by building up his bicepts and has a six pack.

Also you can work on your inner-self: work on your personality. That's Attractive. A smile that lights up a room is priceless. Be someone who's very funny and loving, it's not all about outter beauty. Work on being Patient, Friendly and Kind.

And lastly, Learn to accept yourself for what you are and who you are - that may take some time but it will make you stronger as an individual - that's inner Value. You brother has intrinsic high Value, as God created him and endowed him with it. Also if someone is not willing to accept your brother for who he is that you by NO means need someone that shallow in your life. Go where your adored not where your ignored. A club girls May not be the kind of girl your brother needs. God Bless!


Let me know what you think! I'd be glad to help!

TheLoneWolf

i even told my brother to shave but thats another problem for him..apparently if he shaves his head the scar will still show(a straight scar behind his head)

what should he say if girls ask him :

why do you have a straight scar behinde your head
and
did you have a hair transplant cause it shows

if you guys could give me a good comeback for these it will be great

Shave the head, and if a girl ask why he has a scar behind his head, just say he fell riding dirt bikes or some thing.

I have 3 scars on my forehead. It never even gets bought up.

"Why do you have a scar" --> He does not have to be honest. He can make up any funny story while standing there. I got this advice over some distinctive bodily feature and it was the best anyone ever gave me. I either tell something funny or something in a serious way (of course no diseases etc). Then they respond: "REALLLLLLY" and anything goes from there. He should make sure that it would be possible, but very unlikely. When they figure out it wasn't the truth, they are relieved and there is no 'approach anxiety' from there side anymore. There is comfort.
Own your ugly parts.

Also, look at the bright side: girls are talking to hím.

I've had the same surgery and have the same scar. I decided to embrace the baldness and haven't looked back. Girls love my sexy bald head.

There are plenty of lines he can use I he's uncomfortable telling the truth.

"my brain was too big, if they didn't remove part of it I would destroy you all"
"fought a puma"
"what scar? Holy shit there's a huge scar on my head?!?!"

More importantly though just tell him to not give a shit and no one else will.

I love the 3rd one. LOL, I could really see that working.

I'm 23 y/o with a receding hairline. I can still pull 18 y/o's. Never comes into conversation. I keep my hair very short