Long version :

The weirdest thing happened to me the other night.

I was gaming a HB it went smooth , i even kiss closed (not really closed , we were making out between topics of chat , i was optimistic about an F-close ) But the weirdest thing happened.

A dude came , an old friend of hers or something. He attempted to game her (attempted if too big for what he did).
Then she started to give him IOI's and then look at me for the reaction (it felt good to understand what's going on , but in the meantime i was offended).

I'm positive it was just a shit test , but still it sucked.
What's the indicated way to counter that?

I thought ignoring and giving her the cold attitude (but it was hard to notice since my action scheme is something like "work to get my attention")
So i just left.

She looked for me in the club after , and i was not sure what to do.


Short version :
She tried to make me jealous , tooling the first guy she could lay hands on.



Q1) Any ideas how to cut it off in the process?
Q2) How to "penalize" her for that shit?

Cheers and thx in advance

You did the right thing. She was looking for you afterwards (because you handled it correctly), you should have just started running your game again completely un-phased.

The correct reaction isnt to be pissed, and the effective method for dealing with it isn't to "punish" her necessarily.. You just want to be indifferent, shift your attention elsewhere.. maybe not necessary to completely walk away though, my preference is actually to just turn my body so im not facing her any more and start gaming a girl in that general vicinity.. this isn't punishing her, its showing her that shes fighting for YOUR attention, not the other way around.. if she wants to talk to another guy then you dont even care for 2 seconds.

FWIW me and some of my friends will even do this on purpose to each other at the bar.. im gaming some girls and my buddy is gaming some girls elsewhere, he'll excuse himself and come jump in on my set very obviously.. girls look to me for my reaction, and by that time i'm already half way across the bar to go jump in on HIS set, introduce myself as his friend, and focus my game on giving my friend social value in their eyes.. talking him up as alpha basically. we meet up 5 minutes later and then go back to our original sets.. this works every time.. in your case the other guy set you up for it, use it to your advantage

Once again, i completely agree with guru. If she loses your attention, she's losing power.

So take it away from her when she does something against your will.