Hello There.


First let explain a few things.
1. I've known for her for a couple of years.
2. Never actually met her was someone I met online (does that really count as a friend?)


Alright first off when I first met her we used to talk on the phone all the time...texting as well... through out the years same as always but sometimes due to certain circumstances...we wouldn't talk as much as used to....recently we kind of started talking again this time sort of different.... It's rare to get on the phone with her....but for texting.... 99% the only time i hear from her...

Seems rather odd to me.

Now she claims she likes me (or so she says) and I kind of like her, to point where I'd like to possibly start a relationship (obviously see her first)


Here's another catch....sometimes during the day she'll only text me unless I text her first...

I talk to my bestfriend about this.... he pretty much said just say hi or something and only talk if she replies otherwise just see what she does....

I tried this for a couple of days and there was sometimes where'd she actually text e w/o me saying anything first. On line of "I was thinking about you"

3rd and final catch....
There's another way she'll talk to me (now since she told me about it)
There's an app called "blip me" pretty much turns your phone into a walkie talkie.


Now she'll talk on that...but won't talk on the phone.....odd?

Need some advice on this one....don't want to completely throw her off the list since she's a nice person but this seems all confusing at times....


Oh and before someone says she's not real. I've seen pics and cam'd up with her b4 lol

I respect the fact that regardless of never interacting with her, SPAM can resemble real life quite well, and you can get to know, for the most part exactly what kind of person she is.

I was talking with a girl a year on SPAM before i met her, and when i met her, there wasn't any vitals left that I even needed to know about her, because i already knew everything from SPAM.

Here's the facts, you've never met the chick before, which is fine. But there is a major problem with this, both of you are missing out on the amazing feeling and energy of real life interactions. You can never get this sitting at your computer. Because of this, she will settle for another guy, even if she doesn't like him as much as you. Simply because what's real is worth more to her.