I have experienced with some women that when you share your feelings with them or some how indirectly try to get their validation they make fun of you by rephrasing and telling it to their friends as in showing that you are following her and pursuing her.

So to get around this - you only act with DHV and any DLV will be made fun of ?
Is it with every girl or only some bitchy girls.

are you in a big hurry to tell some girl you love her? Whats your motivation?

No not in hurry, there is a girl in my office cab, we are currently in mid-game, she has shown attraction towards me and I have reciprocated, but my mid-game perhaps is slightly poor, she throws a shit test, and I seek validation(that's what I think is happening), the thing is I don't know how to identify these shit tests. What I immediately observe is that I am being made fun of as she rephrases everything and tells her friend who sits with her, this is done in front of me.

So how I should be handling this ?

Sounds like she is telling it to her friend in front of her to further shit test you and see if you crack under the pressure.

Don't crack, when she shit tests you, think of it as a good thing, she's trying to find a weakness and she's going to fail, because you're not going to give her one.

I get semi excited when i get shit tested.

2 points.

1. don't trade validation for affection as affection is not attraction and you are likely to end up with neither affection nor attraction by supplicating. Restrain your natural AFC urge to validate, compliment, or supplicate a woman until after sex. We have all had to deal with this change as we went from AFC to PUA.

2. If you don't know how to pass a specific shit test, have a default response you don't have to think about. Here are some

a. Smile slyly and laugh at her
B. shrug
c. Say "ok cut the shit" and introduce another topic
D. Say "respect" oh nevermind, that's what Style would say when he didnt know what to say, how about just say "word turd!"

I like those replies for shit tests, detox, i didn't have a list myself, some of those might come in handy