so I'm trying to be a pick up artist so I`m looking all over the websites and books

all they are saying is basically just like this


- develop your teasing/flirting skills

- learn the right way to start conversation


I`m like 'STFU'

could you please be more specific?


I really wanna see good examples of the conversations that has been executed at the bar in real life like what actual conversation a pick up artist and this hot chick had?(from beginning to end). what coversation did they share? I WANNA SEE A REAL STORY!!!
Is there any website that I can read such successful stories?

you can try youtube, you will find some video recordings of the pickups, but usually they are done by masters, still you will be able to pick up few things.

bsbnsc, chances are, you would witness these conversations daily, if you're in an environment with people. You've just got to recognize them.

Also i don't put any importance in learning how to start a conversation. You need to read more, watch more videos. How many hours have you spent doing these things, if you look hard enough, i'm sure you'll find what you're looking for. Try on this site, under video section. There's a few on there.

The Game by Neill Strauss features full conversations writtin out.

thanks P-Style. that was the closest book I've been looking for

I happened to get to see that book but it wasn't exactly what I was expecting to see.

The book was like 70% of narrative, 30% of conversations

what I really want to see is like the content of 100% conversations. I don't need any action description words just a full of conversations


am I too greedy?

Why, so you can recycle them verbadum on girls you know trying to get laid? Its not what you say, its how you say it. Keep reading and watching videos, you have a lot to learn and are looking for the wrong thing IMO

How do you have a conversation with your really close friends when you guys are just chilling? You guys are normal just talking, learn how to do that with women.

^ well said

Although i agree with you, Ouch, It's not as simple when you go about it. I actually talk to girls different to my friends because i can be A lot more excited around girls.

Check the field reports and the lay reports on this forum.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I wanna see conversations as many as I can so when I get into the situation where I talk to some hot chick I can make a reference from it and come up with something better to say.

I believe it will help me come up with something clever stuff to say depending on different situations. So that's why I need to see it

and sombody told me that all I have to do is talk to her like talking to my close friends?

how can I talk to the girl like she's my close buddy when the girl is total stranger?

if you happen to have a hottie as your close friend, then you're one lucky bastard, homes

It's exercise nothing more, nothing less. And eventually it's equally important that a girl engages in the conversation aswell. You'll have to do the larger part in the beginning but when a girl just doesn't care you can be a social monster and still have the conversation going nowhere.

@bsbnsc - You can read up all you want but until you actually develop your social skills what ever you read isn't going to do you any good. And I will tell you upfront reading conversations to know what to say and when isn't going to help you. Reading conversations to get an idea of whats going on will help you. The whole thing with pick up is being social, that't it. Its being able to carry on a conversation primary with girls with the goal to sleep with and/or date them. The only way you are going to actually know what to say and when is to chit chat with people (notice I said people). It doesn't matter what you say or talk about. The more you chit chat the better you become at conversations the better you get with girls.

Hey man, i only just joint the site, but i've been reading pua stuff for about 3 weeks now, the best move i made is analysing the mystery method, i found out about it about 10 days ago and im already seeing improvements and im feeling more confident.

Mystery breaks it down like this:

i'm only gonna do the first section as that's all you need to know for now (and i'm a bit lazy ) :

STEP 1: APPROACH

A1 - OPENING
The goal to this phase is simply begin conversation with a HB or set. a few pointers:

Peacocking

The 3 Second Rule

Opener

Neg

False Time Constraint (can be done with opener or just before)

Using Bodyrocking (shows willingness to leave)

A2 - FEMALE-TO-MALE INTEREST
In this stage you are increasing her attraction for you!
A few pointers:

DHV

Storytelling (with DHV's)

AMOG'ing (not always appropriate)

Neg

Cocky/Funny

Push-and-Pull

A3 - Male-To-Female Interest
In this stage you 'bait' her into demonstrating her own value, you also show she has to earn your interest and that you're interested in more than her looks.
Pointers:

Hoop Theory

Bait - Hook - Reel - Release

Qualify Her
(Research How and Why)

This is the attraction phase, Check out each of the pointers and research examples and how to use them etc.. good luck