A few weeks ago I met a 26yo Chinese girl (HB 7-8) at my Uni. So far, we have done a uni project together and we went on a few lunch and coffee dates. I could give her some advice for her job applications because I'm quite knowledgable about the industry she's interested in. She repeatedly told me that she thinks I'm very clever and I think she admires me for my knowledge of certain things. In our conversations I definitely feel like there's a connection between the two of us and recently she told me that talking to me made her day a lot brighter but I think I need to make a move quite soon to avoid the friend zone. However, I don't know if she's currently up for dating someone, since she's very stressed with uni and applications. Also, from what some close mutual friends told me she seems to be quite inexperienced in dating stuff, maybe she's even a virgin. I'm a virgin myself (24 years old, I'm definitely not proud of this...) which doesn't make it easier for me. This weekend we will go on a party together. Do you guys think this is the right point to make a move? How shall I do it? So far there was no kino involved, because I'm very shy and defensive in these things. If I suddenly start touching her a lot this might creep her out, I guess... I suppose that she will want to dance, because she loves dancing. I'm not a good dancer myself but I guess I can practice some moves to avoid looking to bad. Should I wait for the right moment and then go for a kiss on the dancefloor? Or maybe after the party?
I'm very grateful for any advice you guys can give me. You see I'm very inexperienced...

It's not about being good at dancing, I have very little style, yet i dance because it feels good, i'm not going to do a certain combination of body movements to impress a girl, i'm going to do them because they feel good. Dancing isn't about impressing people, it's about having fun, and because i have so much fun, it attracts those around me and they actually tell me i'm a great dancer, even though i'm not.

the best time to escalate is ALWAYS ASAP. When is asap? next interaction you have with her, preferably not over text, over the phone, or in real life, sounds like you've had a few opportunities. Stop taking them for granted and use them already.

go with the advice given above regarding dancing..dance to feel good ...may even try to see it as stress release therapy, cardio and cool move tryout and therefore act out a bit more..afraid of looking weird? remember: she's from china..everything is weird for her over here....depending on how long she's been here already/acustomed to the lifestyle...she might not notice your dance weirdness ....but she will feel it if you feel good about yourself or not.

mainland chinese? if so, she's got a wholly different sense of romance and all that comes with it...many PUA tactics may not work on her..
you may want to throw over board the PUA belief, that you shouldn't buy her a drink before she has slept with you for starters. you'll come accross as stingy..
best is to go with your feeling and err on the safe side rather than ruining it all by pushing it PUA style , but still show you're interested in her. ive seen PUA's crash and burn on mainland chinese because these dumb PUA newbies would go by PUA modus operandi.

stay cheerful whatsoever, you've already been a great help for her.

chinese are highly goal oriented..now, she seems to be busy with study and stuff, which means she won't go for anyone else unless he's filthy rich and/or very generous or could be of great help to her career. so don't worry about that too much as you seem to be in pole position already.


go with the flow and enjoy her company. but be sure you check your ground and the western as well as chinese horoscope for good compatibilty before you make a permanent move..and..any move can get you hooked for good once you got the "almond eyes fever"

personally, I'm a sucker for almond eyes...love em!