I've decided I'm going to try the apocalypse opener this weekend when I'm going on a cruise, I have difficulties escalating. It's not that I don't have any experience with women (was in a relationship for 9 years) but I've gotten closed up. When I get things going it's not a problem I can handle things just fine, the problem is getting to that point. So I figured it would be a good exercise to throw myself out there, get me out of my shell and shake me up a bit. I can't do it where I live because it's a small circle of people and word gets around.

So the main objective is not to get laid (of course won't mind if that happens) but to get out of myself. I need something that would practice the attraction phase and this seems perfect, I have no trouble building comfort. What do you think?

Also question about the hold it part of the routine, how do I keep from staring her down and looking creepy? Any tips? As I understand not breaking eye contact while she ponders her answer is important. But just locking into her eyes seems creepy, it should seem casual right?

If its a mutual locking of the eyes, how on earth could that be creepy?

I happy to see your doing this though, right a field/lay report on how this turns out for you.

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Instead of the apocalypse (which is both overrated and very bad socially calibrated on a cruiseboat where you will meet the girl most certainly again) why don't you focus on holding a conversation while trying to push the vibes as hard as possible. Making things as awkward as the moment you drop your line in the apocalypse but then just over the whole period of the conversation?
It's a suggestion.

Sounds like you just need to get out there and start approaching everyone that you want to talk to. Realize that it doesn't matter if you have trouble escalating with some girls because there are so many. Approach more, get more practice.