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| magnum11 | PostPosted: Wed Nov 30, 2011 5:44 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat May 28, 2011 5:48 am Posts: 10 | | Ive been texting this girl n we seem to be flirting with eachother n this has been going on for about a week now. How do i tell if she wants to be together or if she is putting me in the friend zone? _________________ You miss 100% of the shots you dont take.
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| P-Style | PostPosted: Wed Nov 30, 2011 5:50 pm | |
Joined: Fri Jun 17, 2011 1:10 pm Posts: 847 Location: Belgium | | Are the text flirty? If they are you will never end up friendzoned and you'll have to set up for a date.
If they aren't you better step up. If she likes you she'll engage the flirting otherwise she'll say she doens't see you that way.
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| magnum11 | PostPosted: Wed Nov 30, 2011 6:26 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat May 28, 2011 5:48 am Posts: 10 | | Ya some are but she talks to me about her ex sometimes witch kinda makes it weird so is there someway I can ask her so its not blantaly obvious that I want to know. _________________ You miss 100% of the shots you dont take.
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| P-Style | PostPosted: Wed Nov 30, 2011 6:55 pm | |
Joined: Fri Jun 17, 2011 1:10 pm Posts: 847 Location: Belgium | | Ok you'll have to give more information about the girl. Out of the blue mentioning a boyfriend is not all to well I'd say.
Where do you know her from, how long have you been knowing her. Etc etc.
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| magnum11 | PostPosted: Wed Nov 30, 2011 7:00 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat May 28, 2011 5:48 am Posts: 10 | | We go to a small school n I've hung out with her and her ex before. But she texts me things light good morning n good night n she also randomly texts me. But I haven't hung out with her since we started texting. Should I ask her to but it would be always cuz I wouldn't know to act like a friend or something more. _________________ You miss 100% of the shots you dont take.
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| Don Draper | PostPosted: Wed Nov 30, 2011 7:41 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Jan 15, 2011 5:44 pm Posts: 1614 | | Well, if this is happening to you, it is a direct effect of improper escalation and flirting. The way you've described your situation so far, it seems to be a lot of random messages and a lot of aimless conversations.
Do you have an aim with this girl? What is your intention?
First, you need to figure that out.
Then, you need to amp up the sexual innuendos and flirting so that you can gauge her reaction towards your sexualizing of the situation. Also, having a tad long conversations won't worn out your fingers, you can have that. Build comfort, target sexual state and you will atleast get an idea of where you stand with her. _________________ " You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "
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