Here's my story.

Recently I finally approached and talked to this girl who is in school for dental hygiene (the school across from where I work). Even before this I sometimes see me and her play the eye contact game whenever she stops by my work. I had a feeling maybe she has some interest in me.

So she is waiting at the cash so she could pay for her coffee, I also went to get coffee. I knew the people working at the restaurant area so I yelled out "Hey! Can I get some customer service here?" in a teasing manner. We start talking about the service how it's always kinda slow.

I ask her if she goes to the school across the street (I had already knew) because I have seen her around often. She replied "Yes". She then talks about how she needed a client (for me to basically be a guinea pig) in order to graduate. Keep in mind that in this situation I was or at least trying to use 60 years of challenge's method, so I was holding eye contact as she talked. She also holds the eye contact with a positive face expression I can say.

Anyway I agreed that I would be her client which I don't know if it was a good idea. According to her, that it'll be on mid December. So afterwards she asks for my number/name which I gave out. She said she'd text me by then. Then she tells me her name and I put my hand out saying "Nice to meet you ****" I held the handshake and right away I think I was caressing her hand a bit (I was very nervous of course so my mind was a little off track so I don't really know if she pull out first or me).

So about 3 or 4 seconds in the moment, she was like "whoa holding on there" with still eye contact but she still had a smile on her face. Then we said our bye's and nice to meet you's and have a good day's.

Just want to know what now? I mean I could approach the next time and be straight forward asking her if she wants to go for coffee sometime, I don't know. I guess I'm thinking about the situation too much. But there is no harm in some suggestions. I'm always good for feedback.

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- Moose

Be careful how you approach this. On paper, looks like everything is going right, but she could just be misleading you. I mean, graduation is a big deal, so if she can get a client, she will.

Not to say she is not interested, but don't jump the gun.

Next time you see her i would say:
"Hey. You know I've been you're client for quite some time now and i feel like i don't know anything about you" Say this in a playful way

"Here, lets go get coffee"

Arrange the hangout as shown and go from their

you've already established a way of expressing your interest about her and asked to get coffee together without that simple "Wanna get coffee sometime" She probably gets coffee a lot, what would be the point in her mind. And you're also making the point that you are her client which will help ease this situation into your favor.

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Thanks for the feedback. I will try this out when I get the chance. Very clever I have to say, hopefully I will be able to think of stuff like that to say in the future.

Your right about the coffee part. I just don't want it to seem like some interview or something either just going out for coffee or even something to eat. I'll tell you guys right now, I know if I do end up going out with this girl, I'll be nervous as sh*t but of course I will try to fight it. It'll be hard for me to think of stuff to keep a conversation going.

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- Moose

If you go out with her and your nervous, just think about all the other guys in the world that wish they had an opportunity like that, of course they can...but very few do what is required to make it happen. Good luck

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what about this?, "I don't think it's a good idea for me to be your client. I feel like I don't know anything about you.

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- Moose