Ok so I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months, and i dont consider my self a pick up artist, an amature at best, but i really like this girl, and i just took her virginity a few weeks ago, according to her she loves me and what not, everythings cool, we get into small arguements but we cool off, but i hate it when she talks to past guys that she's messed with, the other day some guy tried talking to her and she somewhat flirted back with winky faces and shit, and when she talks to her past friends that shes messed with she says she'll party and visit only when she's single. The thought of her messing around with another guy even when she's single irks me and the fact that she would even say that, i mean whats the point of being in a relationship if you think its not gonna last and u say stuff like "when im single". it bothers me and i honestly dont know how to handle this situation?! i dont wanna come off as needy, because ive done good job of establishing value and letting her know that im not a needy person but as the relationship goes on i find my self becoming more and more attached and becoming whiny. I've also confronted her before about stuff like this and told her that i dont appreciate her flirting back, yet it still continues to a certain degree. I just dont know how to handle this?

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antik

There's not really a "right" answer to this kind of scenario. I've been in this situation before and here's what I WISH I had done:

Next time she brings the "when I'm single" thing up, confront her about it. Ask her if she's serious, and if she really doesn't think it will last. There's a 90% chance she'll say something like "I'm just being realistic, blah blah blah", and when she does, tell her that you're X number of years old now and you don't have time to mess around with a pessimist with no faith in the future. Leave it at that and walk away, go home, whatever.

Let her response decide whether or not you want to continue the relationship.