Hey guys,
I joined university a month later than everyone so by the time i have arrived, everyone was in their own little groups and i found it hard to socialise. i found a few friends but they dont value me as highly as i value them.
also these guys only go out once a week,

i need some help just with expanding my social circle, as i find it very hard at the moment so much so that i had to walk home from a pub early last night because i was left alone by my friends. i need to majorly up my game and i have made a major decision to.

where do i start? I want to go out more often but dont have people who are willing to!

Also any tips regarding dancefloor game at uni? Thanks guys,

Tough spot. I am a commuter student in college and can relate with you a little bit. Basically you have to be really proactive about going out. Try to find something to do every night even if its just going to the gym or going out by yourself.

You want to get a lot of exposure so you have to go out a lot in order to build up your options. Say hi to a lot of people and keep in mind that it is better to seem disinterested at the same time.

Also, lower your standards. Great article on that->( http://www.rooshv.com/the-i-have-standards-excuse)

Seriously, sometimes you have to start off talking to the lowest, ugliest, and fattest then work your way up. I always feel better about my game when I do that and there is plenty of ugly people that need friends. It's ok to start there. If all you need is friends to go out with then do that.

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i am a regular gym goer and i play badminton with these guys on tuesdays. thing is they are a bit different to me, they would rather laze around all day on fifa or just on the guitar or watching family guy. Not complaining just they are less proactive than me,

And yeah it does seem like my social life depends entirely on these guys.