One of my best mates friends added me on fb, we had only met twice prior. So we got talking for a couple weeks, spoke on phone a bit and arranged to go on a date the night before a festival that we were both going too.
Went bowling for a couple hours and had a really good time, even if she did smash me both games lol. Anyway at the festival we were trying to meet up, I kept getting msgs saying I want you so much and were are you let's meet up already... We met up, after a while we split a pill each then she says let's go back to hers.
Had a shower and got to bed, at this stage I am fucking high as and was seriously doubting my ability to get hard lol. Anyway she's whispering all this sweet talk like I wanna fuck u and u make me so horny etc, I got hard for maybe 5 mins, lost it and gave up, she said "don't worry I'm not a douche girl, there'll be next time". (keep in mind she's drunk/high). She fell asleep and I stayed awake for 6hrs in her house high as fuck haha.
Anyway we got coffee In the morning, watched some tv and then she had a lunch date with her sis who was in town for a couple days. We arranged to go to a movie after her date and she seemed keen. After the movie we went back to my mates where i was staying, got my stuff, kissed goodbye and went our separate ways.
This may all seem fine but I'm having a hard time in regards to whether she likes me or not, the girls a 9 (im 7 at best) and 2 years older than me. SO im pretty apprehensive about the situation.
She initiated a txt convo on my way home (in which she said theres always next time for me to fuck her). Didnt write back or pickup my call today though.
My mates told me she has a fuckbuddy and she told me she broke up with her ex cause he lived 5hrs away.
I want to persure her and dont know how at this stage, i tried to call her before to organise something next wkend but didnt pick up...

How strong should i come on? Im not sure whether to be distant or not.... TBH it just seems to good to be true.

Don't be attached to the outcome, as impossible this may seem at this point in time. Something to aim for. There's not much advice that can really help, it's all just whether she likes you or not at this stage. Just meet up with her again, if she wants to meet up with you again, she's probably keen. Don't get drunk/high this time.