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1- Dont stare at her so much, maybe you are just making her feel unconfortable. By not staring, im not saying to constatly break eye contact, but im just picturing you focusing in her eyeballs and keeping a "frozen" face. Focus on your facial expression when looking at her. Express yourself a little more with your face and eye movements when listening and talking to her.
2- Tell her "i notice you keep on moving your eyes when youre talking to me. Looks like youre trying to read me!" and tell her how she looks at your nose, etc... i like to point that out to girls, they usually like the fact that im realy paying attention not only to what they say, but to their body language. Sometimes they dont even notice they do it, its unconscious, and by making them aware of it, it fascinates them.
3- if i see a girl is having trouble making eye contact, i challange her for a "eye staring contest". Something i found very powerful is, while staring, tell to yourself something like "i know youre realy into me, you cant hide it. You look at me like you want to eat me alive. We should go somewhere and do some crazy stuff", just like if you were talking outloud, but youre saying it to yourself. Believe it or not, there are some realy small details that will change in your face, like your pupils, your smile, your eyebrows... and SHE WILL CAPTURE THAT ENERGY. You might think im bullshiting... try it! I do it everytime when i toast with a girl. You will notice her facial expression changing just like if she was reading your mind. I will raise my glass and cheer, all with a deep eye contact. If she doesnt keep the eye contact while cheering, i will tell her "thats not how you cheer, you have to look into the other person's eyes!", and i will toast again! _________________ Im not a player... im a winner!
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