This has probably happened at least a dozen times. I go out to a mall intenting to do pickup but always come back without even approaching one single time. As soon as i see a cute girl I just get these shitty thoughts in my head and then I dont want to approach her. I keep going and then this repeats for nearly every single girl I see. I want to start cold approaching but I just cant seem to talk to a girl.

ask yourself...

Am I gay?

Am I a Bitch ?

or

Am I Just a pussy?

If you answer yes to anyone those questions.. then don't approach.

Keep up the good work!

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PHASE SHIFT!

as scary as it is to approach, one way to do it is face it. no other way to find out if she wants you or not. i guess you gotta put yourself out there in order to get something out it. otherwise you guessing is as good as it gets.

i say this to you but i still have problems approaching girls myself and i try to tell myself what im saying to you. once you've got rejection out of the way you'll have that feeling of apathy.

think about it, you've got nothing to lose and after all those times being rejected it wont be nothing new to you so you brush it off. anyway good luck just keep trying i guess.

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- Moose

You don't have to approach at all, it's fine you can get out of it easily. You're just drastically, crazily, stupidly reduce the number of girls in your life or the chances of ever hooking up with a chick you really want