So i number close a HB8 at the bar about a week ago and we've been texting hanging out pretty regularly.. over thanksgiving i don't talk to her because i have better things to do and i don't like to bother people over holidays like that.. but anyways, i see on facebook that she is thankful for blah blah blah, and her BOYFRIEND.. this girl is sending me crazy IOIs and she always seems really interested.. what the hell is going on??

Does it really change the game? Maybe they have an open relationship, maybe she'll sleep with anyone, maybe she can become an awesome pivot/wing.

But just from this little bit, no one can tell you what's going on. Why not poke around and ask? Or just ask directly if she has a BF or not. Just remember there's still good that can come out of this interaction.

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I know exactly where I am... wait a minute, where the F am I?!

thanks for the reply!

**when we first met, we made out at the bar and i got a number close** she def has a boyfriend. i slid a txt in the other day saying something about her boyfriend along the lines of:

HB: haha but now i am on facebook
Me: oh em gee we have soo much in common, me too!
HB: haha i see that
Me: i just hope you're not creepin on me again... (inside joke)
HB: hahaha no i am not
Me: hope not...cause that would just be weird..and plus you got a bf to worry abt haha
HB: hahaha i just saw it on my chat

BLAH BLAH BLAH

she completely ignored the statement i made abt her having a bf but i had asked her a few days before if she had one and she said they just got back together (they got back together while we had been talking and hanging out). and this makes me think that maybe im just in the friend zone?

Shoot IOI bait and see if she bites. And the fact that she ignored that question about her boyfriend means she doesn't really care to acknowledge him. Which is a good sign in my past experiences. Maybe he isn't doing his job right and she wants somebody else to do it , lol

Going off that conversation, no iois. But i'm sure you can fish for one easier than that. I don't usually fuck around with Iois, i just get straight down to business and they're either keen or they're not.