HEy fellas, quick question.
How many of you guys do direct openers in night game, i found that its a hit or miss.
Some girls will laugh but others just take the compliment and look away.
I usually say you look fken cute tonight, i just had to come say hi.

anybody with experience in direct openers tell me how they go in night game?
I only use direct game at night and opinion openers in the day.

Personally i use an opener based on how i feel about a certain girl in the certain situation. Most of the time if a girls dancing in a club, i'll open with, "hey you look fun" or something along those lines. I try and avoid starting with opinion openers. I'd prefer the girl to know that i'm into them and not making an excuse to start a conversation with them.

thanks mi for the reply, ya i feel that if u use "hey u guys look fun", it doesnt really make you stand out from other guys.
thats why i like to use direct and straight to the point.
does anyone have any suggestions related to direct openers in night game

I can completely see where you're coming from about not standing out from the other guys. I agree, you should try and stand out, but i don't just rely on the wording of my opener to show that i am different. Use your body language, voice tone, facial expressions, smile, fun energy/vibe, and follow ups from what you just said. I don't think it's just about the content of the first few things you say at all, although it would probably definitely help to work on it, i think it's slightly overrated. There's no magic opener that's going to do all the work for you

Edit: however i think it's entirely possible to get a girl just from an opener. But you shouldn't be aiming for that as it's usually not going to happen, but if it does, cool:)

hey so what your saying is that the opener doesnt really matter? its how you say it, tonality and the right body language is what counts?

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