| But there are quite a few things you can do to improve your chances of success.
1st: this is really the most important, do you really want to "just watch"? Sit with that for a minute... What would happen if you actually got what your asking for here? Would just watching be enough, or would you attempt to bait a switch while it's in motion?
If your answer is "no", i wouldn't proceed with this request, because you really want something else. I'd work that out first.
What is your motivation? Do you think it's hot and want to get off on the image? Are you trying to learn some super secret lesbian technique? Is this some sort of will power test?
Work with that motivation. Be really honest with yourself and it'll be easier to be honest with them.
I would highly advise against trying in a lesbian/gay bar!!! That's our safe place. You're target may be welcome to your advances, but they aren't the only ones there! Bystanders are standing by to make you look like a fucking tool for even trying.
That said, you might be surprised about your success during Gay Pride. There's lot of hot, new flesh that works it's way out of rural America. These girls have less baggage and political protectiveness. These are girls who maybe haven't yet been convinced that bisexual isn't "gay" enough. This is also a street festival like event, with lots of the general public around and accepted. This is an environment best used for the "education" motivation.
If your motive is not education, i'd look online. If your motive is anything except education, i feel this request falls under "kink". The usual kink request rules apply (If you need help with this find a kink forum. There's a ton. Go look.) Ever been to a kink convention or "sex camp"? It's real! and people really consider your requests if you've got the balls to make them, but be ok with hearing "no" and don't get discouraged.
Well, Mr. JoePublic, now what? You know your motive, you're in the right location...
Approach with an understanding that your still in "their" space. Be respectful: there are lots of easy ways to imply judgments and generalizations. Think about what you say.
These woman are likely to be very on guard (see: bitch shield) about a man approaching them about sex. Be ready for this. It's not really all that surprising, but what do you do about it?
That depends on what your motivation is. Again, if you're not clear on motive try harder!
The truth is your asking for something that most men only dream of getting. Humble will get you very far here! I know. I know. You guys don't like that here, but this isn't your everyday sarge, is it?! No. It's a god damned fantasy; treat it accordingly and you might get blessed with exactly what you want.
I hope that helps.
Peace
Kisser
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