This is not "oneitis", and I know I'm going to get ragged on for wanting my ex-girlfriend back but that's okay- thank you for those willing to help me This girl and I dated for about 1 1/2 months. I fell very hard and so did she. We got into some arguments and broke up. The "break-up" zone lasted for another two weeks (arguing, etc) and now we haven't spoke since. Here is what I know for a fact:

- She loves me
- I'm much higher value and easily considered the "prize" in the relationship
- I'm the best boyfriend she has ever had (not be conceded; her other ones treated her very badly)

What steps should I take to get her back? Thanks a ton guys.

you said "we" broke up.

that almost never happens.

who actually precipitated the end of the relationship?

also, it's impossible to love someone after 45 days.

trust me.

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Just more DHV, and become an even better person. If she really knows you're high value and is attracted to you then there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to get back with her. Just ring her already

I guess it was more her who initiated it (she's only 18 and I'm 21 btw). She felt like we could never get to the point where I could tell her "I love you". Also, she's afraid the I would turn her "bad" and away from her religion yet, she's very kinky! She also got angry that I tried to take her virginity 11 days after meeting her but I didn't; she told me specifically: "Let's go back to my Dad's place. He's out of state. You're the only person I'd ever remove my clothes for". Okay...so I acted like any other guy would- I escalated and escalated. We did everything besides sex (she got freaked out). I'm a virgin too so it's not like I'm trying to steal her innocence or something. Sorry so long, I just want to give you the details because you seem like you can probably help me out...

Anyways, we break up, she's got another guy but he's clearly of less value than I. She says, "He opens doors for me, calls me ma'mm, and respects my abstinence. We broke up November 13th, argued on and off (mainly because I got really out of character and weird) until the 26th or so. From there, I told her that it's probably best that we don't speak for a few weeks. She hasn't written back. But trust me when I say that I am the prize. She can't ever forget me. I was her first everything (sexually, emotionally, and other things too).

Should I just wait a few weeks and try to get her back? Should I wait for her to contact me? It's weird because I still see her as my girl. Don't get me wrong, I'll talk to other women in the mean time but I really don't want to lose this girl- she's pretty freakin special.

Thanks man!

I did an entire thread on this.... Click this link we-split-up-shes-texting-me-like-she-mi ... highlight=

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Dude, this post if freakin gold. I could relate to it in so many ways (despite the part of dating for a year). Thanks a ton for showing it to me.