Well it's 2am and I can't sleep for worry and stress

I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months and things were going alright but if I'm honest with myself I didn't see it continuing much longer as we are very different and I'm due to accept a job in another country.

It turns out she has been feeling pregnant for about 2 weeks with the signs getting worse. Today here breasts have been sore and swollen. For two weeks she has been feelin nausea, lower back pain, feeling the need to vomit, fatigue and headaches!! Pretty much every single symptom.

She was on the pill and took it at the same time every day. During sex I would cum inside her as she was taking the pill.

However it turns out that she was also on antibiotics. Doing some Internet searches seems to suggest that antibiotics can make the pill less effective for some girls

Another point of warning is that my parents conceived me and my sister at the first attempts both times! None of this trying for months bollocks that you always hear!

She will be able to take the pregnancy test in 2 weeks!



Anyway guys, I'm scared...I'm really damn scared right now! Have any of you guys been through this and not ended up with a pregnancy?? This is messing me up pretty bad right now

Take her to as many doctors/hospitals asap. Maybe she can only check in two weeks with that one certain doctor. That, or get off-the counter pregnancy tests for her.

2 weeks after conception is still not enough to even create the embryo man. The embryo comes along after 4 weeks. Milk production usually starts right after birth but the tits "prepare" for it about 6-7 months in.

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

The pregnancy test is only accurate once her period is late. It's not due for a couple of weeks so there's no point in doing that yet. I've got her to book a doctors appointment for the day she takes the test.

I'm not sure how I can survive the wait

there is an absolutely brilliant thread about birth control and protection on this website somewhere. i wish i could find it, i would bronze that fucker and hang it on my wall.

NEVER trust a girl to take the pill.

ESPECIALLY one who is attached to you and knows you are going away, lol.

1 in 3 women admit deceiving a man to get pregnant in their lives.

the other 2 are lying.

they are biologically programmed to get pregnant for the continuance of the human race. their urge for babies is two to three times stronger than your urge for pussy.

marinate on that for a minute.....or two.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

same goes for my "product"; one tiny drop is enough.
I ended up married with a HB 9/10 and a boy.
now, at 8 years of marriage, I can say it was the boldest craziest thing I ever did and...
you haven´t truly been with a woman until you´ve been with her for 7 years.
congratulations you might be onto a new adventure, exploring the female territory more thoroughly than ever before.

for your sake, let´s hope she´s just imagining this because she´s into you.

the pill can enlarge breasts, people throw up for all kinds of reasons, a backache can come from some stomach bugs.
even if she is preggo right now, that "baby" still has to survive the first 3 months for starters..her being on medication and the pills may not provide a very good terrain for a healthy baby.

godspeed.

When you're on the pill, the bleeding isn't natural and can not be taken as THE sign you're not pregnant. It's a fake cycle and you can get the bleeding when you are pregnant. Read the manual yourself if you know the brand. It says exactly when you can test taking that pill (and which medications can not be combined with it). It is NOT one day after the bleeding is late (like when she wouldn't take the pill). You can get a false negative then. I don't think no woman can ever be trusted with this, but you can always count on people neglecting manuals, and, by evolutionary mistake, these people are reproducing.

I really do not know what specific "advice" you are looking for here?

You apparently had no problem with blowing your load inside her all the time that you were sleeping together, so somewhere you should have thought about the possibility of her pills "failing" and you becoming a Daddy? If you didn't, that just goes to show how ignorant you were about the effectiveness of drug contraceptives.

So, the way I see it you got all your fun and feeling, and you never wore a rubber. Now, you have also got a kid on the way, if those symptoms are anything to go by.

My "advice" to you is to sit down and talk to the girl about the possibility of such an event happening, and then take the right steps from there.

Oh, another thing, don't be equally careless at taking up responsibility for your... actions. Sooner or later, such things come out and you don't want to be labeled *that* guy who wasn't man enough to accept his fault and deal with his immediate duties towards the woman and the baby.

Good luck.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Reading this scares me. I would never trust a girl who says she's on the pill. I'm covering my junk no matter what!