Two scenarios as both have happened to me. Hot girl I was friends with always had a bf and I always had a gf. I broke up with my gf and a month or two later she tells me she just broke up with her boyfriend. I had no idea what to do I just asked what happened and if she was alright. Maybe to friendly but she was my friend.

Second and more important scenario. Gonna hang out with a girl from the gym who went out of her way to Facebook me while she had a bf. recent fb posts suggest that relationship is on the outs. We're gonna take a cardio class together. Any suggestions? I'd like to fuck this girl her body is unreal.

i have no idea what you're looking for but i'll guess.

if you looking for MLTR, the first scenario i suggest that you build more attraction. i know both you you have enough comfort already. call her and talk about anything. also try using bf destroyer patterns if you need to.

the second one show that she's interested in you. spend more time together. text her randomly like twice a day and make her feel comfortable around you. since you're both taking cardio classes together, I'm sure you'll get plenty of chances to spend time together. ask her out sometimes after class and grab a casual coffee. have your logistics planned where to take her after that. also remember to let her talk more about herself. just let her talk herself into your bed.

good luck bro

The first example happened a couple years ago. I blew that one real bad but I sucked at gettin chicks back then...still do actually

The second one has been more flirting on Facebook for now but we agreed to try out this cardio class at some point...I'm not gonna rush it she's still with her bf. that's why I started this topic I'm anticipating a breakup caused either by me or something else...I was pretty happy with my Facebook game I usually suck at fb/txtin...I'll post it when I get to my laptop it's tough to do on a phone

I disagree with texting her twice a day...in fact...reduce that number to ZERO.

Never text girls first unless you are making plans with her. It's my rule, and you don't have to follow it, but I find it is too easy to come across the wrong way when you don't have the assistance of tone and body language.

If you're going to take a class with her, then make sure you are always having fun in that class with or without her. If you focus on trying to make her attracted to you, you're just going to fail miserably.

Be confident. Be assertive. You are the coolest motherfucker out there and you can get whatever woman you want. Give her a chance to give you a chance by being all that is DonBullshine!

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I do, however, agree with the "coffee date." It's innocent, public and safe. A cafe is a great place to just chat and get to know one another. Make sure you have an idea (sort of) for a few other activities you can bring her along for after coffee.

Location changes give the false feeling of spending more time with you!

My ideal "date" isn't a date at all...here's an example:
-Get coffee and chat it up for awhile
-Ask her if she'd like to go for a walk downtown or wherever
-Suddenly I remember I forgot to get my niece a present for her birthday (or Christmas is coming up, too), but there's a problem. I don't know what to get her! Guess who might have a better idea what my niece would like? A female. Guess who's with me? A-ha!

Now when her girlfriends ask, "What did you guys do together?" it'll be a whole slew of things rather than, "Well, we went to coffee and talked...it was nice I guess..."

See where I'm going with this? You may have only spent a total of 45 minutes to an hour with her, but she perceives it as more simply because you've done more together. The comfort level rises so much more quickly when you operate like that, and I guarantee that other guys are only going to take her to dinner.

Don't say much shit, escalate, and get that point of wanting to fuck her across.

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Fair point AnzPersuasion.