hey, first of let me introduce myself:

I'm 20 y.o. live in israel and kind of new to acctualy trying to pick up. I've first discoverd pua with david.D. I had a good run for about a year (as a senior in high school) but I didn't realy do anything. I noticed that alot the girls that I've been around were attracted to me (most of the girls actually) but I didnwt went throw with it to the next level (never even tried to kiss one of them. even though it was clear that these girls would be happy if I did - deep self confident issues).

when I finished h.s. I didn't realy made an effort to keep in touch with those girls (I don't know where I got it from - but I had a mindset that I shouldn't call them and try to keep in touch because that would make me look like a wossy, and I should wait for them to call me and let them do all the work for us to keep in touch - something that I know now that isn't correct. as a resolt, I lost touch with most of them, and it made me fell even more insecure then I felt before, and made me doubt even things that I did good and generaly made me skeptical about myself.

bottom line is - that like this is an aspect of my life that I would want to change, and this is what Iwm here for.


and NOW for my question: what is youe perspective on sarcasm? I'm a very sarcastic guy, and I always have some thing to say, and this can help with nagging, but sometimes I think that I do it to much. maybe it causes the person that I talk to feel stupid (it kinda makes sense..). so, I know that I should lower the frequency of using sarcasm, but my question is - how much? when should I use? when should I not? are there kinds of sarcasm that I should never use?

you have to be careful with sarcasm and humor when dealing with dumb girls, they don't often understand and come to the conclusion your weird. Calibrate your sarcasm as needed

Indeed. Sarcasm can come off as an insult, you arent trying to insult the girl, you are trying to challenge her, try to mix some self-deprecation humor and you might have the formula for success, you must have a really strong frame though and you must always look for shit tests, remember shit tests are good to an extent, means she feels attracted and is trying to break state.

thank you both!

I guess thats why we try to fnd the perfact 10. it's annoying that I should be carefull with my humor so I woun't make her feel stupid..

bro if I had to count all the things I have to do to be successful with woman that I find annoying as fuck I would be in triple digets very soon. I used to be very idealistic and and steadfast in what I would and wouldnt do, and I was rewarded for my integrity by getting no pussy.

The good news is as your game gets very good there less shit and shenanigans you actually need to put up with. But I don't think you can avoid this in the short run.

I'm very sarcastic myself, I do my best to leave it out until I know the girl fair well though. If she's throwing sarcastic remarks about, then she obviously gets the humour and it's another weapon in your arsenal now. Don't go in with the intention of sarcastic humour though, it could horribly backfire. Hell, if you're felling confident why not try going in with that attitude and see where it gets you. You never know you might come off a bit more real and all will be good. Everyone has their own "style", maybe you can pull it off.