Direct vs Indirect approach!!!



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 29, 2011 12:24 pm 
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Hey y'all
first of all excuse my writing for which english is my second language.. :P
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I've been asking myself lately that are indirect approaches really necessary?. don't girls like guys with lots of confidence? doesn't the whole peackocing thing is for you to show the girl that your not like any other guys? (in a good way of course)
than why not use direct approaches? it really does show girls that u have the balls to go and talk to them ESPECIALLY at the day game when they are not used to getting hit on. i mean yea i get it if they are in a big group or moving targets than you might use the indirect. but I've been busting my balls doing that and is really too long to get the girl into getting her attracted to me. well maybe thats just me
i say dress really nice, work out, and try using direct approaches, and tell me how it goes.

yesterday in a mall i saw two HBs one HB10 n one HB11 walking into a store and i approached them DIRECTLY
me: (hey i think your pretty cute and i like to get to know whats more to u than meets the eye)
got ignored and felt awkward
me: hey eyes r up here, Is she always this rude (to her friend)
HB11: get lost freak (felt even more awkward when ppl were staring at me in a way that maybe i was a freak)
me: wooooo come down it seems that u guys really hate it when ppl compliment you
too bad im gay or you would've been all over me by now

HB11: eww get away from us before i call my boyfriend to beat the crap out of u (i just wanted to find a hole in the ground and hide my head in it, so i pretended that i was very heart broken )

me: omg...u guys are really amateur and homophobic, seriously!!! (notice that i didn't insult them back by cursing, so then i turned back and felt really insulted even though i wasn't really gay lol)

meanwhile, this time ppl were staring really bad at the HBs, and one guy gave me a nod and shaked his by trying to tell me that to forget them their bitches)

all of a sudden the HB10 ran up to me and said she was really sorry for her friends behavior and told her friend to fuck herself IN PUBLIC

the HB11 turned into an HB4 to me. i hated her

me: its okay...i get it u guys don't like any company right now.. but let me tell u something beauty is very common, I've seen so many beautiful victoria secret model type of girls in this city. however what makes a girl really attractive is her personality, humor and a great outlook, not just looks.
i gave the HB4 a last mean look n walked away again. the HB10 grabbed my hand n stopped me and offered her phone number n told me "u should show me how gay you are"
i was completely shocked.

now I've got my first HB10 phone number and i haven't even called her yet.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 29, 2011 4:43 pm 
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Great job. You were insulted, you felt beat down, and you kept going. Congrats!

Honestly dude, you did everything right, and the proof is in the pudding, because you got the number!

You definitely have the right idea about direct approaching. Indirect approaching means you don't have to be rejected and feel bad about yourself, but it's lazy. People need to step up to the challenge grow a thick skin, as you have, and just DO it.

Again, awesome work, man! How long have you been studying game?

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Great job. You were insulted, you felt beat down, and you kept going. Congrats!

Honestly dude, you did everything right, and the proof is in the pudding, because you got the number!

You definitely have the right idea about direct approaching. Indirect approaching means you don't have to be rejected and feel bad about yourself, but it's lazy. People need to step up to the challenge grow a thick skin, as you have, and just DO it.

Again, awesome work, man! How long have you been studying game?

Hey man thanx
ive been studying the Venusian Arts for a year. And just like you said, the Indirect approach helped me not to feel that i got rejected, while it was also helping my AA. however, my fellow mate suggested that now after so many approaches i should start having stronger balls to go Direct. Attractive women made me really uncomfortable, and now when i look back i just laugh at my self.
cheers


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YOU SIR, YOU SIR, YOU ARE A GOOD MAN, A GOOD MAN,

GOOD MAN,

GOOD WORK SIR,

this is what real men do


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awesome. And one more thing i love arab girls :D

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YOU SIR, YOU SIR, YOU ARE A GOOD MAN, A GOOD MAN,

GOOD MAN,

GOOD WORK SIR,

this is what real men do

LOLz Jeez thnx :D


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awesome. And one more thing i love arab girls :D
oh definitely... Plus turkish and persian girls


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post your progress with that girl

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Great job. You were insulted, you felt beat down, and you kept going. Congrats!

Honestly dude, you did everything right, and the proof is in the pudding, because you got the number!

You definitely have the right idea about direct approaching. Indirect approaching means you don't have to be rejected and feel bad about yourself, but it's lazy. People need to step up to the challenge grow a thick skin, as you have, and just DO it.

Again, awesome work, man! How long have you been studying game?
wtf is up with ur name

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