Hi this is my first post after my introduction so bare with me, I got this woman who I am strangely drawn to, I say strangely as I would be happy to be good friends with her initially but that is a stumbling block as follows. I see her maybe twice a week through work we talk briefly as she is working and I am sort of customer, we have banter but I realise I never really flirted with her (known her for about 4 months) she is slightly playful (bit of teasing etc) I asked her out for a coffee/sometihng non datey twice but she got out of it indirectly, thinking of it I know she gets hit on a lot at work and I think she thinks I am doing the same as she sort of hinted that was what I was after. Any tips on how to proceed? to have her comfortable enough that she agrees to meet up for a drink etc? She has a b/f who she says she doesnt see much and they are not that hot at the moment (but that is irrelevent as I am looking more for the close friend thing not to split them up) should I tell her I will ask her once more then not bother her if she doesnt want to meet up or do you guys have any other ideas, we are comfortable talking in her work place but I sense she is slightly guarded possibly thinking I just want to bed her like everyone else which is why a coffee etc would be good to get to know her without the work thing..