Spoke to a couple of girls recently and had to admit, but I was probably a bit in my shell and not quite as confident/funny/spontanoues in conversation as I would have liked to have been.

had a chat with one after who mentioned she didn't think that we clicked.

Am I right in thinking that the more confident you are, the more chance of 'clicking'?..
It may sound like an obvious question.. but I just wander

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here to learn.. thats all.

Confidence is more about how you see yourself as a person and how you want to be seen like. Clicking is about finding common interest with eachother and building attraction.

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

The Secret Language of Flirting and Sexual Chemistry
Most of what people refer to as ‘chemistry’ lies in the communication
between two people. You’ll notice that if a man starts a conversation in a
completely serious and proper manner, i.e. there’s nothing unusual about
the way he communicates, there’s unlikely to be chemistry between him and
the woman he’s boring.
When we say “there’s chemistry” between people, what we’re really
saying is that they’re both flirting with each other. It only takes one person
to flirt, but it takes two to have chemistry.
To have chemistry with a woman, you need to flirt with her—she can’t
create chemistry by herself and is even socially conditioned not to start
flirting unless you do.
Flirting is obvious to some people, while others even if they can feel it
when someone does it to them, have no idea what it really is or how to do it
themselves. To learn what’s behind it, let’s list some examples:
• Teasing or busting balls
• Sarcasm
• Being a little too serious for the situation
• Breaking the socially-acceptable limits on physical space
• Interpreting communication through a sexual subtext or making
sexual innuendo

from attraction is not a choice