I've been k closing a girl for the past 3 weeks now every time we have met (about 5 times now).


Saturday I met her in a bar and we went to a club together and K closed again, she agreed to sleep at my friends house and more k closing but when I tried to put my hands down south over her clothes she was ok but stopped me if I tried to get it inside



Im just wondering, the times we meet up have been around other folks by and large but this week the club we both go to her friends arent so Im gonna arrange to meet her etc.


How do I continue to escalate things from here?


Also, I dont wanna fuck up (the last 2 girls I've k closed have ended up friend zoning me), I would quite like something more from this because she is a cool girl so how would I go about this?

I'd say i have been comfortable up to now but things are gaining familiarity and I want to keep pushing things more serious etc.


I get plenty of compliments from her etc and she tends to initiate the kissing and I have continued with the negs etc.

You need to look up how to deal with last minute resistance.

i would say do a freeze out ... say u too are in the middle of something ur both aroused she stops u ... id stop kissing her and sit up grab my cell phone start playing a video game ruin the mood she will feel like okay 2 seconds ago i felt good now i feel like shit then she will start trying to gain ur attention again if she stops u again rinse and repeat

Noted fellas thanks.

Regarding getting her to date etc... we tend to see each other at this night club and have plenty of mutual friends...

With my last foray in mind (Similar situation and on our first lone date I get f-zoned) should I approach the idea of asking to do something alone with her with trepidation?


She seems to be making the moves first with the kissing and she compliments me quite alot.


For instance last week she kept wanting to go to the bar/sit down to kiss etc and leave our friends to the dance floor.


Is it as simple as 'Hey we should meet up for drinks next *****' ? and see what goes on?


Every time we meet has been alcohol orientated, perhaps its time to do something different?


We were both ill this weekend and spent about 6 hours awake in bed eating pizza ha. Shes comfortable I reckon.

if u want to get her back to ur place make up a excuse for her to come get u invite her in and show her around but dont b their for more than 15 mins after the club say lets go back to my place she will feel more comfortable to come back since she has allready been their and nothing has happened i would say u should lead the point where u wanna make out ur letting her run the show