i was trying to date her like a month ago as an aAFC. then i jumped in and she rejected me. but we agreed to be friends. i text her like every 3-4 days since then. i would initiate but never really ask to hangout. and she always comments on my statuses on facebook. but then she told me she saw a band i really like and she knows i like them. i actually showed her the band. but then i texted her "i'm incredibly attracted to you. stop being so awesome " then she said "haha wtf" then i said "look at the time. good night." i'm thinkin i should freeze out completely until she texts me at this point. or was that a bad idea. i was honestly pissed she saw that band and didnt tell me. bitch. haha. PS one of the things we bond over is music so yeah.

freeze her out completely

yeah i said that just to confuse the shit out of her. and quick question. is the right answer to everything if im not sure a freezeout? or at least not text until i know the perfect thing to say. halfway out of i cant think fast and halfway like i dont give a shit to text you back right away. i just wanna know if im starting to think the right way. i've been looking for 2 days here.

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I got 1 more post than you, I'm a noobie
but freezing her out will make her think of you if shes interested..

holy crap you couldn't ask for a worse text... Would you rather the truth or a possibility? The truth is if you freeze her out you will never get a text from her. The possibility is she might text you, but Only if shes head over heels for you. From her response id belive the first one. The truth is this is a almost unsalvagable relationship- unless you have Oneitis for her id move on. This isnt to bring you down or make you feel bad, its just a part of learning to fail- learn- and try again. Others will tell you ways you can get her back - but in the time that would take you could get three new girls. To answer your second post no. For some reason some puas suggest freezing out any girl who acts weird. This is about as effective as neging when used a lot. Do not run into a corner and pout everytime someone doesnt text you what you want. my biggest suggestion is spend at least two mins thinking about what to text a girl. not only will you not send texts like this (please dont text a girl what you texted this one if you dont Know she likes you the same amount) it will also show you think your time is valuable and women like this.

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i have oneitis, but imma talk to other girls too. i reeally like this girl. we have hooked up before. like beyond makeout but not sex. i want her to think im talking to others, but that i would give her priority. its been like 3 weeks since i got literally put in friend zone and we've sorta been talking but ive been like kinda whatever i think. idk. fuck.