So, I met this girl about a month ago or so at a party after we had chatted online for a bit.

She's cuteish, seems popular (has a lot of friends/fun parties), seems intelligent.

She's also apparently fairly slutty, which, once again, I am cool with.

Anyway, I hang out with her at one of her parties, talk to all her friends, get along well, tell her it was an awesome party and she was like "So I'll be seeing more of you?" with a big smile on her face. Talks to me the next day online, has already invited me to another party, but says I can hang out with her and her friends outside.

Well this was right before Xmas, and I had another invite to a party, so I didn't push hanging out with her that week.

She still gave me an invite to her New Years party, and I went, she seemed to like me, but had another guy there she didn't seem into, but still was fucking.

Long story short, I slept with her friend that night (she had another guy afterall). After that she encouraged me to hang out with her friend, but her friend felt this was because she doesn't get many guys (She's cute, but REALLY shy, and also sadly normally lives 4 hours away, or I'd just go for her)

Me and her didn't talk for a few weeks, but she reinitiated contact and I THINK she's single again. She's talked to me online a few times, gave me a compliment comparing me to a book character in a novel she's read saying that I have the "charm and wit of him" (he is known to be charming and witty, apparently), but when I asked her to hang out, and asked when she was free, she flat out ignored it.

That makes no sense to me.

Like, she seems like she likes me, everything she says seems to indicate she likes me, we certainly seem to have chemistry when we meet up, and she apparently bragged to her friends about me, but she didn't seem to want to make plans, which is very odd to me.

Why would a woman compliment my charm and wit and then not want to meet up with me?

Hey. =]

To me, it sounds like you generally have no problems with girls.

I can't guarantee that this will solve the riddle but just for future reference, when you "ask" a girl out, make sure you tell her you'll be doing xxx at xxxx and let her know she can join you if she pays, or if she's nice or whatever.

From experience, girls have told me that they really like how I don't ask "are you free on tuesday etc?" because it makes you sound like a pussy.

Good luck. =]

Good point. I try to excise the pussiness from everything I do - I should have just suggested something.

That being said, she's still acting odd.

I don't agree with going for meetups over text bro, I think you should of just followed that conversation up with a phone call, chatted her up for 15-20 mins and then ask her about meeting up.. Just give her a call tonight.

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Eh, that would be weird, I think, seeing as we don't talk on the phone, only text/im or in person.

Depends on her age. She might not be looking for anything serious and likes to flirt. You said she' slutty so most are like that. She might also be a attention whore. I know some easy girls and their like that. They want every guy to want them even if their not interested themselves in them. Not a lot of info to go on but those are my guesses.

I'm not ruling out that she's not someone interested in you but the only way to know for sure is to call her up and ask her point blank out. I know you only text/chat in person but next time you two are talking just tell her your going to call her in a second cause your tired of communicating that way. Then ask her.