Okay so there is this girl that I am pretty much in love with, and we have been really good friends since the 10th grade. As of right now, we are in 2nd year university and it has been 3 years since I have liked her. I asked her to prom and she said yes to me there, but when I asked her out, she said no. She had always said she doesn't see me that way, and since it was effecting our friendship, I hid my feelings and pretended like they were gone.

Ever since then, we have been having weird talks. In fact, about a month ago we talked about how I "used to" like her. She said that I deserve to know why she doesn't wanna date me which is because she says she just generally isn't ready for a boyfriend. We are clearly meant to be together and she does not see it. Everyone who meets us always thinks were dating.

Now at this point, my question to you guys is what should I do? I have noticed every time I ask her out, she shuts me down but I never totally speak my mind. Should I give it one last shot but this time tell her things like "if we never try it, how will we know it won't work out?"

You're in the friend zone......


You're best bet is to not hang out with her as much as you currently do...and start meeting other girls and going out with them, with the intention of having a good time, and getting close to them.. A lot of times, this will make the other girl jealous, because she will realize you're the man she wants.

“(…) she says she just generally isn't ready for a boyfriend (…)”.

It’s her way of being nice she just don’t want to hurt you by telling you the truth she is not attracted to you. and besides that way she can keep you as pet. you give something every girl wants. ATTENTION so it’s enough for her for now, while her prince charm doesn’t appear, you are her distraction.

Best way is tell her upfront, that you still have feelings for her, and you should go on a break as being friends, as long you have feelings for her, and maybe not being so close will help you to clear your mind..
So cut contact with her, one month will be enough. This will give plenty of time, for her to star missing you, and maybe start thinking if she liked you or not.

Go out have some fun, learn some principles of pua, go to the routines forum, field reports always help, learn MM, and 60ych and maybe some davidangelo. … try and boost your confidence. Because one month can change her perception she has in you, and this “breakup” can help you. To become a man in her eyes.

FFS GO GAME OTHER GIRLS. This will give a boost you can’t believe, if you are ladies man, then if she sees you with another girls, perhaps she will become jealousy( like mownsould told you), and she will know other girls like you, and girls are fucking competive.

If in this time she contacts. You have all the power so flake her, you are busy guy. Tell her something new you are doing, hobby that works like a Dhv, or exams, or work, but when you have time you will set up something up.

After the break … Invited her for something party game her… be funny playfully cocky. TRY AND ESCALATE sexualyl. Use a lot of push and pull, maintain strong eye contact. And if you see you are getting I.O.Is, you go for the kiss, if she reject, act like she has no fucking control over you.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Yea.. dude, No girl is opposed to having a boyfriend if the right comes around.. She just isn't interested in your like that.. And why do you think you guys are meant to be together? Because you have a connection? Why couldn't that mean that you guys are meant to be friends..

What you do is tell her like this " hey, i still find you attractive and im interested in your as more than a friend, and i understand that can't be so we can't be ffriend. Its too much for me" Then don't speak to her anymore, feelings for you on her part will begin to develop as long as you don't deliever you last words like a needy wuss.. Say it strong and confident with a mono tone and mean it.. She'll come running back..

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hows the situation going now? any progress?