How to show interest without seeming desperate?



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2011 2:54 am 
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Okay so this girl went out of her way in our class to start talking to me in one of my classes. We built up a little rapport, and then we grouped up for a project that we didn't finish in class. I suggested working on it after school one day, and we agreed to do it at her house. I had a friend drop us off, and he stayed for a little while and....'chilled'.....with us. So needless to say i wasn't the sharpest at the time, and i kind of lost sight of my goal. By the time our friend left we actually had to start working on our project, and then when we finally got off of it, her mom came home.

I am really kicking myself for not making a move, but now i feel i have to make a move soon or else risk getting friend zoned. I want to make a move, but I'm not quite sure how to do it without seeming needy, or desperate. Like I don't want to go overboard on my want, but I also want to get my point across.

I do actually like the girl, and she is a potential girlfriend candidate (save your one-ites speeches for somewhere else) so I'd rather not fuck this up, and in the end I think that's what's throwing me off from my regular game where this wouldn't be a problem. Any advice?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2011 11:53 am 
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first, you have to lead. She will not make the move.

Second, you have to kino. Start with playful kino and built up to sexual kino. I can't tell you when to go for make out and stuff like that. That Kind of happens to me when I am in the moment.


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say something silly like this, it usually works...I used it all the time when i was in highschoolll

Find something to make a bet on.. Like " I bet you i can shoot this paper in the trash can from this far"

She'll Say " leme see"

you say " if i make it, you kiss me, if i miss, I kiss you"

now if shes interested she'll something like " no fair, you win both ways :)"

then say " fine.. what do you want if i miss"

blah blah blah , shoot the paper, hit or miss go in for the kiss and she will comply..

This move has never ever ever failed for me... not even once. I still use it sometimes, however i rarley need it anymore. I'll do it with a random stranger at a bar or something. They do have to be interested in your first though

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 12:57 pm 
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any more progress?


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