ok so shes not the hottest, but she is a pretty cool chick.
weve been friends for a while now. shes come over to my house a couple of times so i could introduce her to star wars.

we somehow always manage to end up on my bed. and there is a lot of kino coupled with the fact that she constantly says she is not a very touchy person. - clear ioi right?

problem is i still cant bring myself to make the close. i go blank when i try to think of something, ive had a few girls in my room before all of them much hotter than this one. but ive always kissed closed for the first time out of the house.

any suggestions? thoughts? ideas?

wtf...
She's on your bed. A girl that's not into you will never end up on your bed.


This is beyond grasp for me. Really.



Btw the correct answer is yes she likes you and yes she wants you the fuck her brains out. Now kiss that girl, grab her tits and feel her puss up.

Thats not entirely true.. In a lot of cases, yes..if she's on your bed, she wants it..

But I remember there was a couple times I was hanging out with a female friend...and we were alone..either in her room, or my room..Its happened more than once lol But when I go to make the move, she's like "whoa whoa, motown, you're just my friend, we can't do this"

Granted it has been quite a few years since something like that happened...This was way back before I knew anything about relationships and how to get a girl, obviously....But I kept having these fuckin good lookin females hanging out with me...But everytime... "I'm sorry I gave you the wrong idea, but we're just friends..."


But then again, I guess kze has the kino to his advantage....So maybe he has been able to escalate her emotional state enough to where she is really interested and wants him. I hope that is the case....

And kze, it's been said by quite a few of the best PUA's out there... That they'd rather have a slightly less attractive girl that is just fucking awesome....Than having a complete bombshell that is borderline retarded..lol Not those exact words, but Quality doesn't just mean her looks....If she's a good catch, go for it.

well thats what i can see happening is me pulling in and her being woah, just friends.
we have more plans for her to come over and watch lord of the rings, which as starwars probably wont get watched.

the kino is her playing with my arm, yesterday she was scratching my stomach and it felt really nice, weve been lying next to eachother in the dark ( lights weren't working) my arm over hers. the reason why i think im going to friend zone is she said she doesnt usually fell this confident in being touched

do you think i should give a kiss test or just pull in and hope for the best?

Dude next time you 2 are laying down and shes scratching your stomach....move her hand down some so she stars fondling your cock and balls...

Another thing you can do...is copy her..

Shes scratching your stomach? Scratch hers...if it feels nice for you, it will feel nice for her as well, most of the time.

She's playing with your arm? Run your fingers up her arm..

Its one thing just sitting on your bed bullshitting.....but if you're laying next to eachother....in the dark...touching eachother....if you want it, you better jump on it before its too late. Next time you're both laying next to eachother..turn your head and go in for a kiss...And if she's scratching your stomach, do what I said in my first sentence..

If she has a problem with it....then push her off and blame her for scratching your stomach..Its a sensitive area for you that extremely turns you on lol..or blame her for whatever she is doing that is turning you on. Even if its not turning you on, blame her for turning you on so bad that shes making your balls hurt..and if she's not going to give you relief, she's going to have to go home so you can get some relief.

Its a compliment, saying she is turning you on.. but its a punishment at the same time because you're pushing her off..and letting her know she is acting out of line by giving you blue balls...Point is...shes getting your dick hard by laying next to you scratching your stomach.....So if she isn't willing to let it go to the next level..Then kick her out of your bed room lol



How old are you guys by the way? I guess I should have asked this first...lol



also, if she's telling you she doesn't usually feel this confident/comfortable being touched....that means she is that much more comfortable with you. That is a major IOI, if you ask me. Sure it could mean you're going into the friendzone...especially laying on the best with her in the dark and not making a move......But it doesnt mean that is definite....It seems both of you are shy.. so that might work to your advantage here... If she feels that comfortable, I'd try to kick it up a notch.

im 20 and she just turned 18.

well she goes to my school and il admit i have a reputation for getting with the girls, but i think i somehow afcd my way out of that ( not saying its a good thing ) i think this may have helped with the emotional connection.

but the overall view here is that i should just go for the close and stop being a pussy?

the way im seeing it now is that im leaving in a few weeks so what have i got to lose,

Okay, so you guys aren't too young.....I would consider everything I mentioned in my last post....and give a little bit of time for some of the other guys around here to provide their opinions... For the most part, I feel that they will agree with me though..I think you're good to go to start making some moves....You did good by not rushing into things.....you let her comfort build and build...and you need that comfort...so thats good. You can still take it slow, but next time you see her, definitely escalate things...

P-Style posted a reply before I got in on this thread...and he pretty much summed it up "she likes you and yes she wants you the fuck her brains out. Now kiss that girl, grab her tits and feel her puss up."

So do the damn thing bro...good luck, and let us know how it all ends up

I would of just laughed and looked at her like (you can't be serious) and proceeded to make out... What you guys are gonna learn once your skills with women improve, is women have to submit to the authority of a man... Though only if the man understand he has the authority.. And all the pua/players/pimps have this same understanding. Or one as lot similiar.

You are the leader, she does what you say if you truly believe that she should... how do you think some men have 5 girlfriends that all know about each other and they accept it? And theres some men that can't even get there 1 girlfriend to even have sex with them.

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Well those experiences were back when I was in high school..So I knew no better.

I personally have the genius tendency to NEVER think to look something up on the internet...that's why its taken me so many years to find this place, and places like it lol..I didn't even watch The PUA/VH1 show until a month ago lmao.

But now, I'm older....and see it as, if a girl were to pull that shit on me now..and then continues to refuse despite my effort to move forward...Then that's her loss. And like you said...laugh at her like, you can't be serious.....then proceed to move forward....I now know its great to have that type of humor in a situation. I mean, back in school...I'd get irritated at that shit, and it would show....NEVER let the girl see that it bothers you....At least that's my current opinion

Tell her you're feeling hot and strip naked hahaha. If she doesn't leave the room is ON lol.

Man, like everyone said here: "She's on your bed". How much comfort do you need her to show you?

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