I am about to hang out with a girl, and I'm feeling nervous, which is rare for me. How should I deal with this?

Uh.. Embrace it!

Just like when you get that adrenaline rush before a sports game or speaking in front of an audience if you don't play sports. You're anxious or a better word would be excited about what is going to happen next and you should deal with it.

Just like Chief had in his blog do you want to ride a roller coaster and feel nothing? Or do you want to fill all of the excitement the roller coaster has to offer?

Just throwin my 2 cents..

Well what exactly are you nervous about?

Mostly because I am gaming her and she's attached.

I did fine. Did incidental and a little bit of overt kino. She put her arms around me by the end of the evening, though she has the boyfriend. After we had been kinoing quite a bit, she started mentioning the boyfriend repeatedly, including saying "I love him" "I love him" more than once.

Is this a sign that she was trying to remind herself that she loved him, or am I reading too much? She stopped kinoing nearly as much after she started talking about that (though she put her arms around me and dragged me to the front of the store we were in)