Hey jus wonderin if anyone can shed sum light on sumthing for me. i have a small ting going on wit a girl i really lik, we've only kissed a few times, flirt a gud bit and generally get on excellently, great chemistry but shes always sending me mixed signals like asking me to come places with her sayin its a date den bringing a friend along, saying theres nothing she'd rather do then going sumwher wit me then cancelling on me. last nite i got a msg from her at 3 in the morning and all it was was a smiley face, anyone able to give me a clue what that was about?

I don't know but she seems very skilled in confusing and frustrating you whilst getting your attention while all the time giving you very little of what you want. Are you going to continue to try to puzzle her out or decide to take action? Im not answering your question because I highly doubt a three am smiley face text is a reason to write a post.

I my opinion she was missing you, and she send you a smile. Don't bother with that smile, when girl text me they use a lot of smiley, but i ignore them, because i know they mean nothing to me.

I highly doubt she was missing him. If by missing him you mean getting some immediate attention by bothering someone at 3am in the morning, then yes she was sorely missing him

thanks for ur replies, i didnt respond to the smiley face, there didnt seem much point. shud i just take this a friend msg?

I forgot to write, that she was seeking attention from him

I have one girl friend who all the time is sending smileys to every body (only one smile), i think she want to have attention . When she send me smiley i, send her back...

yeah maybe shes just attention seeking like you said. i dont know shes got me hooked though, she has some pretty solid game going on, another thing she does is instead of asking me to come out for drinks with her she simply says that she is going out with her friends and ask me if i am going out too (separately), if i say yes then she says i will probably see you out then and off she goes. This is getting very old bcos shes always using that one, i wonder should i call her on it? or how to respond?

Smileys are always good IMO.

freeze her out and act busy when she re-initiates contact unless shes willing to conform to your needs. It seems like you just an orbiter at this point.

Smileys are about as worthwhile as back pats.

What detox said. Texts at 3am shouldn't be responded to in atleast 12 hours. It shows you really do not dig them.