Hey guys, firstly let me say this website is great. I don't really agree with the whole PUA thing, with canned lines etc, but I love what you guys say about 'inner game', and since I've been working on it I've had so much more success with women. I go out clubbing fairly often and I can normally find a girl to play tonsil tennis with but my problem is going from the kiss, to getting them back with me. I always pull away first etc to keep up the attraction. E.g. last night I was getting with a girl for a while, she seemed really into it, I thought I was in there, when it came to leave, she was just like "I'm not coming back with you" and took my number. Where did I go wrong?

Women are difficult human beings.. and they often feel uneasy to leave with someone they have just met:o Even if other is attractive and they are sexually attracted.. so how to get over these ''defense''?

-I hope you have your own place, because it is easier to go there. Women don't like to have strangers in their home.. If you leave there you find so much about her and you would also know where she lives?!?:O

-You need to have some ''fake'' reason to go your place.. Even if you both know it is about sex, you have to have something other stuff why you are asking her to your place. Good example is something you have talked about earlier; need to show her your.. pet? stamp collection? what ever:D

-You need to talk about sex.. Not that two of you are going to have sex tonight.. but some other way.. great story that includes sex? or you can just say that some others over there are going to have sex tonight (and point some couple who are so keen on each other).. just talk about it and her mind will start thinking of it

Here are some tips that I found out after thinking a little bit:D I hope you find even a little help from here;)

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Her ASD was to high, her friends or somebody else would have known if she went to your place.....OR you asked her back to your place and implied sex was your intent. Dont let her friends know she is gonna fuck a guy she just met and never act like you know you are gonna get it, even if you do. Like it was said above, any reason to get her to your place is ok, as long as it is not sex.

To properly pull, you have to built lots of comfort, without it, is impossible. Do not go for make out.