I've known this girl for like 3 years now. There was something between us at the beginning but neither of us pursued it, mainly because she has been with her boyfriend for 4 years and I have been jumping from one girl to another. The fact that she had a boyfriend made me lazy and I saw her as a lost cause even though there was some degree of heat between us. We have periods of flirting, then no flirting at all, then we flirt again, rinse and repeat.

Anyway today I had a photo session with her where we were asked to model together. We had to pretend that we were a couple by holding hands lying on each other bla bla bla. I didn't really use this to hit on her and kept it strictly professional. But she kept giggling and laughing a bit because she had never done this with me. She said it felt weird. Does this mean that I'm friend zoned?

Might as well be but who cares. You can be the biggest friend of a girl and in a week be her biggest lover. It just takes some skills and practice. You decide if you will be friends with her or her lover. If you project a strong frame onto her she will follow your cues. She will start adapting your reality to hers. If her reality=we are just friends and your reality is=no were lovers and you project that onto her she will follow your reality. A girl wants to follow a reality of a guy who has his own reality and values.

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

I had always thought that when you were in the friend zone you'll never get out. Great in that case all I need to do is snatch the first opportunity I get....or bring about the breaking up process with her bf.