Howdy, so I'm in a co-ed fraternity and while dating within the fraternity is pretty common, my pledge sis (let's call her Anna) thinks that it's weird cause we are suppose to be "brothers and sisters".

That said, I think she is subconsciously jealous of another pledge sis (Vicky) who lives in the same dorm hall because she is also a first year but has already gone on a couple dates. When we meet at fraternity meetings Anna would go "Guess who went on a date today?" and then point to Vicky.

Anyways, I'm not sure if it's a shit test but Anna has brought up dating within the fraternity twice now saying how she dislikes it and all I could think of to respond is "Whatever happens happens". She also brought up how another guy in our fraternity asked her out and she thinks he's a creeper.

So long story short, we were hanging out with other members of our fraternity yesterday and when she sat next to me she would press her leg against mine and start shaking. I began to notice if I take my leg off hers, she would stop shaking but then after a while she would press her leg against mine again and start shaking (again). Is this subconscious or intentional? Cause I know a lot of people like to shake/tap their legs.

I also offered to take her to a party last night with my friends but she said she rather continue hanging out with people from our fraternity.

no one?

If she turned you down when you asked her out, she's probably not in to you. I mean, you could always start working on making her get in to you though.

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