Hi Guys,

I went on a date with a girl recently. Lets refer her as HB6. I invited her to watch a movie with me. I know it was a bad idea for a first date. I wanted to watch that movie and read good reviews about it. So we decided to give it a go. She was 4 inches taller than me. But it didn't bother me! She was bit shy too. Only 23! So, we chatted for a while. Movie was really good. We liked it. It was 8pm when it finished. I asked if she wanted to have dinner with me. She said yes. So, we had dinner and I kclosed her. Though, I didn't get any tongue action from her side. It was more an one sided kiss. Then a day later, I sent her saying may be we should hangout again. Go for another movie or I will plan something. She said yes. I thought may be I did something right. After a week, she hanged out with her friends for Halloween, so we couldn't meet. Then next weekend she had exam. This weekend, when I asked her out for a movie and dinner, I know it was lame. She didn't reply. I could feel that attraction wasn't enough as I think I am pretty good in reading people, after I joined the community. So, I sent her a message as she didn't reply that it is OK if she doesn't want to hangout again but not to keep me hanging!! She said we don't have chemistry so it is better not to go on a second date. Ouch..I know rejection is a part of life. But I need some feedback on my analysis of the situation and some advice -

1. When we kissed, her eyes were open and i nibbled her lips gently for 3 times. Yep I do a complete analysis of every shit I also hugged her and didn't get any pat on the back as she was holding on to me. I took it as a good sign. But does that mean if there is no tongue action then second date may not happen?

2. I shouldn't have gone for a movie and dinner again. That was lame. May be that was the reason. May be not. I think she already made up her mind before i sent her the text. I think my inner game is not that bad but I am little insecure about my car May be I should buy a new one. Advice?

3. What should be ideal outcome of a second date? I though this is how it progresses (though I have fclosed on the first date before) -
First date -> Kiss
Second date -> Makeout
Third date -> Makeout and first base.
Fourth date -> Second base.
N.B - In case of girls having high self esteem.

Waiting for the feedback.

Thanks in advance!

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eyes was open? weird

After the first kiss was one sides , you should had stop at all. She was cleary feeling no chemistry or attraction toward you, probably she only accept the date for validation, or because her friends forced her to go.

A movie for a first date, yes its boring, but who cares.... you could escalate after that, easily you could recovered that.