Ok, I admit it I am an introvert, but that doesn't mean I don't love the company of a beautiful woman. I'm a 29 year old guy who works as a letter carrier(for now) and enjoys running in my spare time. I have had success with women in the past as I dated and was nearly engaged to this beautiful HB8 type( http://a.yfrog.com/img616/6303/rzsyzf.jpg ) but she left me this summer(probably because I was a pussy). I've been back dating and with hardly any PUA skills been able to get several dates so far mostly off online dating sites, but like anyone, I strive to be the best at what I do, and I just wanna be able to go out locally and pick up girls who catch my attention, maybe even play some mind games with my ex where I can fuck with her and make her want me back, but maybe I won't go back to her(probably wouldn't if I'm having success elsewhere).

This made me think last night, when I was on a date with some fatty I met off match. Probably one of my worst dates ever haha, but I was looking around. Tables of hot ass girls hanging out, cute girls on dates with ugly ass guys. They should be mine. They need to be mine. So what are some good reads out there, what are some good tips for me to emerge from the mediocrity around here and be the man every girl wants to be with. (I do have a couple cuties I'm talking with, and a psycho who wants to be in a serious relationship, but I'm greedy man..and getting older, I need to find my sexy ass ex-wife!)

I am very introverted myself, and I find myself messing up a lot here. Mainly because I like to drink. I made huge progress, then been dropping it.

But it's mainly self control. You have to force yourself to go out sober and interact with with women sober. I am not talking about once or twice a month, more like at least 2 nights a week where your just opening sets.

On top of this, get some knowledge about "pick up." Tons of great stuff out there. You should be spending more time sarging then reading btw.

And if your worry about not drinking at a bar. Here is what you can do. DHV it by saying, "I am the Designated Driver tonight, I can give up a night of not drinking to keep my friends safe." If your planing on pulling, add to it "were partying it up after though, were I will be getting my drank on! From here, qualify and built comfort then invite them to the after party. Don't invite them to after party right away, it's gonna make you seem kind of needy. Only exception is when it's closing time, which then turns into a hit or miss.

Well im an Introverted too and i've found it difficult to talk much or even transport what is in my mind to words , I don't think it would be helpful to try to do things that Extroverted people do , such as finding lots of friends , talking too much and impressing girls by using too much of DHVs , routines and things i'd call as " dancing monkey crap"as an introverted , i don't say never use them , i'd do DHVs , Routines.... but not continually.
I've been called quiet , different and it's just waste of time trying to fake being extroverted , at the end of the day , it won't work , try to improve on Introvert's strengths , we are mysterious and we can attract different type of girls , we are independent , we are not at all clingy as we need time to be alone to get energized , what i'm trying to do is to find how to project my self-confidence without using too much of words , preferably just one liners and of course body language is important too which i think all introverts have been given the gift of a bit of good body language already.....
try to think what worked with your EX ? how did you make her to fall in love with you ? and it would be so helpful for us if you can share the story with us...
I wasted too much of time trying to be that loud guy in the group and it didn't work , i couldn't even be one of the loud guys , in the end , i realized it's better to be the best of yourself....

I actually differ with this, it is possible to act like an extrovert, I have stayed with extroverts and only difference I have found between them and me is that have an outward focus, they are not thinking about themselves, their lives etc which introverts do most of the time, once you develop this mental discipline you can see the other side of life too.

Good stuff...to answer your question Crow, honestly I was just myself with the ex. You probably checked her out I'm guessing. Pretty cute. I miss stuffing that regularly. Back when you used to be able to search for single girls within a network on facebook I would do it and just start poking hardcore. She was just out of a relationship so I poked her and we went back and forth a few times and I messaged her, went out about a week later, and I was just myself. She was a Penn State alum and that was around the time they made their run to the NIT basketball championship so we would meet up and watch those games together. I was also a really good runner in college and she was just getting into it and training for a marathon, so the common interests definitely helped as we hit it off right away. I just got way too comfortable with her I guess and the relationship went downhill in the last few months. I thought for sure this was the girl I was gonna marry and spend the rest of my life with, but I was wrong, really hurt and I'd constantly cry and think of her. Oh well, that's in the past and I'm out to find the girl that's just like her but better and I need to make her want me!

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I should add, rolling with good friends always helps. Just because you guys stay talkative the whole night and having fun.

Actually I've been able to come across the exact thing I said to get the ball rolling with her thanks to facebook saving all of my messages even ones I thought I deleted!

thanks for the pokes

figured I'd say hello since u decided to respond to my poking. I'm J, 26 years old and I live near Htown Saw that we have some things in common. I love to run and race, and you like a lot of the same music I do, which is a good thing! I'm usually busy everyday working as a letter carrier, but in my spare time I like to run and work out or just relax and play my ps3 or enjoy a few brews with friends. l___3# is my aim name, message me on there.

Sincerely

J

She wrote me back within a couple days and messaged me first on AIM that night!(Ahhhh if they were all this easy!)

1 more thing. My facebook picture at that time, was me drunk off my ass during the super bowl, wearing a Saints jersey with a closeup of my face. Totally the opposite of what I should be posting, but it was me having fun, so it worked!