This chick ive been hanging out with for a few months now just smokin weed and getting to know eachother just brought up friends with benefits the other day via text msg saying how she would rather have friends with benefits then having to masturbate(we happend to be on the subject cuz she was going to a porn convention) but anyway i think i fucked up by replying "yeah sex is definitely way better", she then replied "duh" so i shot back a wink face to show i was down without coming off too strong, she didnt reply but now a few days later me and her are still hanging out and she still seems like she likes me just i really dont know where to go from here should i full on push the friends with benefits thing? or maybe keep playing things cool and see if they shift more how i want it to go?

lol.
IT MEANS SHE WANTS YOU TO FUCK HER!
so take her to your fuckin bed and get it on!
so send her a message saying stop masturbating im coming over bitch!
fuck man...its not that hard.....

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lol i know ive been bitch about it, i needa man up and just get it in, love your reasoning by the way

yea dude.. Shes giving you the go. SHe's not going to strip you naked. You have to take the lead. Invite her up and just get it in, because she's gonna fuck somebody real soon. She's obviously thinking about it, so the first dude to man up an take her by the horns shes gon' go... Besides, weed makes bitches horny bro.. Most of them at least.

I live in NY too.. PM me you number or facebook and we can smoke, and sarge together .

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ok so heres an obstacle in this matter she dosnt get back home till Friday, do you think i should just text her and say im down to fuck and not waste anymore time on the matter, or should i wait till shes back and do it in person?
will she find me weak asking in a text or over the phone?

Bring up sex via an actually phone conversation is the way to go... like "sooo how many guys have you slept with"

though you should of just kissed her once she brought up the fwb topic

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Ok I am not the smartest. But I would personally go and get this chick before I text or say anything specific about sex. Here is my reasoning.

She is already down to fuck so why bring it up directly again if you know.
Why risk her being taken off guard or in mid stroke with some other dude wile your texting her.
Call it like; why step out on a limb at the wrong time (obviously there is some sexual tension, use it proper)

How about.
Set up a time to hang out, playfully. When you get her alone work on eye contact through conversation. Range yourself close to her and when the moment is right go in for the kiss.

If you do it like this she will prob rip your clothes off from what you are saying. She prob is a nympho if I had to guess. I would love this situation.

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werd up dude i didnt end up txtn her about that, but this girl is like heavily trying to hubby me up now shes coming to me with all her problems and shit, im not really trying to get into a relationship just to fuck this girl, im gunna take it slow and try not to get into a relationship but if i just so happen to eventually be with her then whatever, but im on this site to improve my self confidence, game, and just be better socially with people i dont even know, im sick of having gfs naggin me and shit, im 22 and wana go out there and get anygirl i want and just have fun

What he said ^

I hear what your saying. I am 28 and im learning a important lesson right now. If you like a girl. There is nothing wrong with telling her your DTF.

It seems simple. Maybe even not that important at first. But believe me it is important. Girls will assume a lot if you give them nothing. So the best thing to do to get what you want is inform them that your DTF.

I mean there is a lot of good advice on this forum.

I have improved a lot in the last month or two. I feel like I am more in charge of who I sleep with now. That is one goal. Keep the faith.

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A man`s dream. No emotional relationship, just straight sex.