met this chick in vegas over the weekend. didnt hook up but hung out at the club all night. got the number and we both from so cal so been txting with her nonstop since we got back. she was showing serious IOI (questions about my last relationship, background etc) so i just went with it. thought all was good.

problem is as i thought about it, i had been doing most of the initial contact although once it got going it was pretty mutual. then this morning she didnt respond to one of my txts and in the past i would just txt again and things would start back up. well, i decided to wait and see it she would initiate, but she hasn't. its only been 1/2 a day and were both at work, but it didnt stop her the past few days.

dont ask me why i'm being such a b*tch about this, but i want to text her. my mind is telling me to wait it out though. i feel like ive been chasing too hard and that i showed too much interest and now shes bored.

are my senses correct?

sounds like your correct. Why arnt you moving it towards a meet up in LA asap?

just text her back again and go for a meet up.

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I read that linked article, one line said

1. There is only one purpose in getting her number. To Bridge the Gap. To make her meet up with you again.

Sounds right to me, using texts to increase attraction is appearing more and more to me as a fail.

Just txtd back to reinitaite. Will push for meet up now. Thought i could take my time since the text game was going so good. Guess i was wrong.

Doesn't sound like this is not recoverable, does it?

Its all you can do man I wouldn't expect its gonna ever eventuate in a meet up from her in my experience, but to be honest if you would have pushed for the meet up right out of the gates, while your odds may have been somewhat better, nothing was a sure thing.

She seems likes shes more interested in your attention then in hooking up. she wasted your time in the club, and now she wasted your time texting. Seems like a typical young and difficult chick who likes attention.

Anxious and extremely needy... Give her time to breathe. She needs to think about you and miss you on her own and not every time she looks at her phone.. She should be wondering " why hasn't he text me"

Sure its recoverable, however, you must not text her anymore for 2 days. Then just give her a "PHONE CALLL" like a man would do and set up the meet.

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clearly... like i said, dont know why i'm being such a b*tch about this. smh

thanks for the replies

Don't worry.

Advantage of this forum is that the other guys are emotionally detached from your problem so they can give you proper advice.