Today I texted my girlfriend something along the lines of
"Goodmorning. I woke up thinking about you...specifically your long beautiful legs and how great it would be if you were next to me right now so I could kiss up them, and tease you a bit with my tongue like you love..listening to you moan softly as you wake up in absolute pleasure. Have a nice day"

It was one of those sorts of texts, but written with a little more care and slightly more sexual. Usually she says stuff like "You're going to be the death of me. I want to (do so and so) with you as soon as I can" and she'll respond with a simliar text.

This morning she replied with
"Naw I miss you bub Good luck with your driving test today, Jem (a close male friend of hers) and I know you're going to pass!"

And I felt flat because she didn't sort of "return the favor" in a sense, and that she even spoke about another guy after I texted her such a hot text. Like what the fuck is with that?

Jem has known her for ages and they travel to work together. My concern isn't with him and my girl, because he is hugely AFC and is literally friend material. It's just that rather than reply with a hot text, it was neutral and not even really personal as it included him also.

My only guess is that maybe Jem was like "Who texted you?" or maybe she said "Oh I got a text from my boyfriend" and then once she read it, felt awkward replying sexually as he might have said "Wish him luck!" or something...but this probably isn't that likely.


Anyway - is that unfair? or am I a ridiculous person haha
Thanks fellas

this happened a bunch of times actually With my girlfriend and me. Both of us wouldnt respond to a sexy text from each other and individually flip out. JUST CHILL. there is nothing wrong, maybe she is on her period or just stressed out at that moment. Or with her parents...

Anyways, she most likely not cheating.

Unless she does this to you when you are with her as well. Then something is fishy and needs to be looked at. Check that shit out.

a healthy relationship is where you can trust her. when you stop doing that, it crumples. You can prevent her cheating by being a great boyfriend or by reading the signs early and seperate when you arent being a great boyfriend.

Good luck bro and dont be paranoid.

J Slay

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Thankyou J Slay, I appreciate you taking the time to respond to this

I'll relax about it.

century,

i agree with the above poster too.

this used to be a huge issue with me and my gf.

we would both flip out on each other.

if it becomes a well-established pattern of her not reciprocating things you do, then that is another story.

a couple of isolated incidents is no big deal,

but you also can't ignore a trend.

the thing is, one incident like this, you really need to forget it.

even the biggest pua, gets responses like that from time to time. lol

chicks are flaky.

a lot of times, a text like that gives them an ego booster, and they go all "egomaniac" after reading it, almost punishing (in a sense) the person who took the time to BOOST their egos.

women are tards.

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Mack that makes a lot of sense, especially the ego-boost part.
Good.

It happened only once. Don't over analyze unless there are clear warning signals. There are none in your case and you know the guy mentioned in the text.

The text wasn't even bad.. She said she missed you and through a smiley in there..

wtf are you complaing about? Someones catching oneitis.. Catch yourself before its too late.

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