Hi there forum,
It's Marsview and I have a crazy story for you but, could use some feedback.
The other day I went out with my neighbor to smoke a jay. She told me her cousins birthday was that day and thats why she was all dressed up. Around that time her cousin showed up with six different tall ass indian males. Now I am 5'9" and weigh 160 lbs. I'm not a big guy. Her cousin was about 5'3" 90lbs. This small petite Indian girl just as gorgeous as gorgeous can get. blue eyes, wavy long brunette hair. And I didn't even give her the time of day. As I stood there talking to Behroze (my neighbor) her cousin asked my name. I said "I'm Everett. Whats your name?"
She said "Khushnuma, but you can call me Khush." I asked her how old she was turning that day and happy birthday. She said "I am 23." Than she asked me to go out with them. I declined because I had just purchased a 2000 dollar computer and I give myself an allowance every month. I had definitely went over that allowance. She kept asking me over and over. By the time she asked me a 7th time she said "I will pay for you." I told her that I couldn't let her pay on my birthday. She than said "Just shut up and go get dressed." With a big grin on her face.
So I went and got dressed. Now all the guys who were with her were dressed in nice dress shirts and pants and shoes. I decided to put on a t-shirt, My Lucky Leather jacket, blue jeans, and my cheap dress shoes with a black belt. When we got to the club. Temple in San Francisco. Immediately after we got in and I was handing my jacket to the jacket holder, she grabbed my side and pulled me cloths to her. She was wearing a leopard print, skin tight dress that barely covered her small perfect bubble ass. She got on her toes to get closer to my ear. I leaned down enough to her. She whispered "You are so hot, Just so sexy." I replied "Thank you." The rest of the night was her following me every where. Constantly grabbing my hand and squeezing tight, but I always led her. She would look at me every five minutes to reassure how sexy I was, Would say things like "I wish we were just laying down in a bed together." While we were outside she kept putting her hands deep in my pockets and up my chest rubbing her hands on my chest telling me how warm I was.
At the end of the night when we were leaving she asked me what I did and I told her than I asked the same. "I'm a pilot" Let me stop to ponder, and revel in this. A hot 23 yo indian girl who's a pilot. PERFECTION. Than she asked for my phone number because she wanted me to go out with her for halloween. Now we didn't go out and I haven't seen her since. We still text each other but it always seems brief and When I try to initiate us doing something She stops texting, but the next night she will text me at 3 am to see what I'm doing. Now here is where I could use some feedback. Last night she said she has been sick and I told her I should give her a massage. She agreed. and than I said we should do something this weekend. Now I didn't get a fucking answer back. Annoying. What would you MPUA's do?
Marsview out.

Hey man, this post by you makes it seem pretty clear she was into you on the night. If she's as hot as you said maybe she was waiting for you to exert a quality to fuck her right there and then, I don't know too many girls who would act like that if they only wanted to give you their number. Maybe she wanted you to pull the trigger.

However I bet you could salvage the situation by maybe being more direct by text or even better by calling her. Goodluck.

geeze man what is wrong with men these days.. take it for what it is dude fuck' she was obviously flirting with you and she obviously gave you her freakin number because she wants to see you again. im about 110% pretty sure your neighbor put in a good word for you by the way. and who the fuck cares about how tall or how nicely dress the other guys are when she wants to flirt with YOU!

if i were you i would have raped her tongue with my tongue on that day you saw her. and what went wrong with your texts is that you bored her dude. be clever and witty when you text with women, make her laugh. and put yourself in her shoes before you respond, thats how you keep from saying idiotic shit.
instead of waiting for her to invite you to hang out with her on holloween you shoulda invited her to hang out with you on whatever you were gonna do that day..

it seems as tho you may still have a shot but that chance is rapidly fading, and if you do lose her then fck it dude, life goes on. send her a text but something funny, and then invite her to meet you somewhere you're already at like starbucks or sum shit or invite her to tag along with you to somewhere you were headed to. if you cant think of anything funny to say dont try it then, just say hi and something short and then invite her. and try not to look desperate by texting her so much, you be in control.