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Ok so I met this cool cute girl a few months ago. We've had dinner together and we've hung out a bunch of times. I've been to her place a few times to help her with various stuff. I've built TONS of comfort and rapport with her but so far no kino or any real touching (I am definitely giving her IOIs through eye contact though). The only big IOIs I'm getting back from her is that she laughs at almost every one of my stupid jokes and she sometimes twirls her hair while talking to me. While I'm talking to her she holds strong eye contact too. I'm hanging out with her again on Sunday (her plan) and I want to test the waters a bit more. I'm wondering how I should go about it:
Compliment her and see how she responds? (She REALLY does have pretty eyes)
Low level kino compliance tests?
Just go for the makeout? lol
I'm feeling about 60/40 that she is interested in something happening. She keeps making plans with me but she is pretty social so I don't know whether she is interested in me particularly or she is just being social.
I think you've waited way too much to pull the trigger and kino escalate. Dinner, isolation at her place...at some point you should have made things more physical.
Think about it...the fact that you are at her place is an IOI itself. A huge one actually.
Now, she may have made an impression of you. The impression that you are a nice guy. Nice guys are the first ones getting into the friend zone, so beware.
When you meet her, be a bit more touchy/feely. Greet her with a hug. Also, go to a bar where you can sit right next to her. That way is easier to escalate.
Do some palm reading. You don't have to be good at it, just make it fun.
You should try to kiss her. Not right away, but during the date. Do not wait till the end of the date to try it.
Sorry, but the way i see things, your chances of having sex with this girl are like 40% at this point. Your chances of being placed in the friend zone...70%.
Good luck.
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