How long is too long to wait when asking a girl out?



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 09, 2011 3:36 pm 
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in general, like if there is a timeline, when should you ask a girl out?

If you have known her for lets say 5 months, is it too late to ask her out?

I want to get more familiar with the dating game.

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I personally believe in first impressions. If one has been made about you, it can be difficult to change it (unless you're trying to be perceived as a bad person).

That being said, someone you know for months already has made an impression about you. It could be good, bad, or neutral.

If it's good, you can still salvage the interaction, and she might go on a date with you. If it's bad, you'll have to work VERY hard to change that image about you (not worthy in my opinion). A common case is when a neutral opinion has been made. Many guys in this category are usually placed in the LJBF when they try to make their moves from "friends" to something else.

If a woman doesn't perceive you as someone she'd have sex with, you probably have little chance to make her emotionally interested in you.

Analyze your particular situation.

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Whenever you think of it. If you like her now, ask her out now. Why wait?

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Im not really qualified, but if you like her why not try? You'll never know if you don't do anything.

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