| it is the same to them as it is to you, being ugly or fat, is a turn off, just like it is a turn off to you, girls are the same as guys, just even more picky and they have asd on top of that, after years of social conditioning, they sometimes will go with guys that are somewhat uglier, do to it being ''socially acceptable'' more then others, because that guy was able to defeat her asd and make her feel less like a slut (he took more responsibility for the hookup then others, and declared his clear intent so that she could resist and not look bad *like a slut* the less it is her fault the better)
looks, social value, emotional impact, sexuality, right time right place, money,
it all matters, differently to different people, just like some guys love fat girls, and find skinny girls disgusting, there is a universal appeal in most cultures, be as close to that universal appeal as possible, and it will become a breeze, when you look like brad pitt, girls game you, when you look like ron jeremy, you game girls and get rejected, the guys telling you looks don't matter, are the guys who just finished reading MM and have this it's 20% looks and 80% personality shit going on, and can't think for themselves, that is just to give guys more confidence to go out and actually approach women, and not just give up because they are ugly, the more ugly you are the more you have to approach, and the tighter your game has to be (game to me is simply your ability to escalate and handle asd), once you can do 30+ approaches a day, and escalate without anxiety, you are fine, no matter how ugly you are you will be getting laid,
make sense?
don't expect to be pulling hotties left right an center if you are out of shape and dressed poorly, even if you are a social wizard, you have to be at least average looking, to consistantly get better then average results, but personality accounts for alot (due to asd) once you figure out how to handle it and lead, you are a step ahead of guys who are slightly better looking then you, and I litterally mean slightly
but let me put it this way, if you stand on your head socially and are fucking amazing, and you are a 2/10 on looks, you are most likely not getting laid unless she is fucking desperate, you can still get a few flaky phone numbers here and there, but when you got some real value behind you, girls will be calling you instead of rejecting you, a 10/10 seriously needs no game, and can be socially retarded and he will at least get to sleep with 6's, while a 4/10 needs confidence and a ton of game, and he can sleep with 6's, thats about the equivelent of what I have seen anyways
hit the gym, and work on your confidence, you need alot of confidence if you want to be doing this on the regular, start opening sets and hanging in there until they either leave or tell you to, even if they stop talking to you, just enjoy the silence and hang in there, experiment with all types of methods and stuff, MM is really complicated if you are starting out, probably 60 years of challenge makes it really easy and simple to start, that or some direct methods that make it fun and simple *see shock and awe, or the appocolypse opener, or GM style*
GOOD LUCK
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