Wonderin if anyone can help... I met this girl a while back and dated her... perfect freakin ten(in mind too) turned out she was my ex brother in laws ex fiancee... (strange world, im from Kalgoorlie, she from Melbourne, met in Perth, neither of our neighbourhoods yet so close to my group lol) anyway we dated for six months till she worked out who i was and her ex hit the fan about it... two years on she rings me and asks for a tantric lesson... she flies across the country, we get it on, she feels guilty again and goes home... Dammit this girl is my tantric goddess sent from heaven... even if we only entertain each other it makes life frikkin great, so how do i get her head around it all bein ok...? We connect on all levels, just in the coital afterglow she gets funny... Hopin for suggestions
Lion (Jess)

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Just don't stress it.Its just that simple.

More you dwell on it,the more she'll dwell on it(as being a bad thing).

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thats a toughie just be persistant and youll get there hopefully

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lol i never dwell, and the question posed... i would never let her know i wonder...
Im the over confident bounce off the walls type, im her golden desert lion, her wild man etc, she only sees who i really am ever, never any of my insecurities. Plus shes gone back to Melbourne so...3500ks, kinda wondering if i freeze her out to draw her back, or go opposite and show interest. Like i said its only after sex she gets funny and vanishes. Then she goes quiet for a few months before coming back strong. Theres plenty of other girls in my life, thats not a prob. Just... shes the pinacle of womanhood, i dont put her on a pedestal it would drive her off, instead i treat her as a best mate and we work so damn well... except the running off
Advice...?

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Maybe she's using that strange situation as an excuse not to get to an emotional level with you. You have no relationship with your ex-brother in law, and if she doesn't either, I don't see why it should be a big deal. After all, it comes down to her having dated someone you know, but that's about it.

Whenever you feel she's getting weird about this whole thing, change the topic/venue/mood. Do not let her get into this state, and it should be fine. If she gets there, simply let her know it's not a big deal for you and reiterate that you guys should move on from the past.

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