been talking a few asian girls i got numbers from. but im finding it a hard time as they all seem to be so polite/ smily/ friendly i cant tell if they actually interested. like this one girl i posted a field report on: number-close-turned-into-day-2-vt119928.html. shes putting up pretty much no resistance... laughing... touching... but i still cant help but feeling like thats just the way they are?

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Yeah, I'm actually quite a lot into Asian girls. I agree that many of them are really nice, but they also tend to be rather shy and conservative when it comes to dating. I've had a few dinner dates with Asian girls but unfortunately nothing more. Maybe someone here knows how to game the Asians...

You should look for the half asian, half white/european girls, they are the best. They got the best from both worlds. I'm talking from experience .

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I'm currently talking to a girl from China mainland. She is just as you said, polite, smiley and friendly. I think she is interested because she always initiates conversations on Facebook and back when I first met her she would come into work and have trouble leaving because she'd be talking to me.

This could be a cultural thing though. Chinese friend groups and probably other Asian groups are very close-knit and cling to each other while American friend groups are more individualistic. She's very talkative for an Asian chick so who knows. I'm still trying to figure this shit out myself.

well in the asain countries phone numbers mean almost nothing they give them to any one with a phone (in my experience).(since they gave it to you, then just use it to invite them to do things)

the biggest thing is which asain country they are from,

Koreans are raciest and are culturally frond upon for dating any one but other Koreans or white men, and the only way to keep there attention is to buy them lots of things (because there mothers teach them to be gold diggers apparently)[according to all the advice i have gotten around the internet]

{having some problems picking up the korean girls that are at my campus because i cant find much advice besides "buy them things" and "impress there parents" and i dont have much of money to spare, and there parents are in korea}


as for the other countries i have little to no experience with, but the cultural differences between just the asain countries is huge.


also as i think about it since you have there numbers, take them on dates and try your best to get lucky, if it works congrats, if it doesn't and she gets offended after you were so forword with her explain that the cultural differences are to blame and you were getting signals that said "go for it"

Not exactly on topic....but I did read an article a while back saying that Asians, are some of the happiest and healthiest people on the planet...Why? Because majority of them are ALWAYS smiling!


With that said...I've had a thing for Thai women for a while now..Never met one yet though.

Maybe you guys should stop trying to hook up with FOB's. If your going to stick with FOB's change your game up. Some girls maybe shy and reserve, that's where logistics come into play. Take her to a lounge/bar, music a little dancing, evolve your game players.

As for the guy that thinks buying korean chicks gifts is the only way to open/date them, that's wrong.
If she's and FOB on your campus just open her with a simple "Hello" in korean, it's simple and will lower her defenses. Remember your not an Esper and the best way to find out what a person is like is to approach them and actually speak to them.

glad to see im not the only one notices the problem. i could get her to lay with me but had to pull her closer. but the problem appears when for example i hold her hand but she doesnt replicate... maybe its because they are too polite to stop you.. unless its like you going for a kiss. could someone actually give me some advice? or do i need to make it more general because some guys think im just a nut for asians.

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What's wrong with that? Seems like a perfectly logical choice to me. If I was forced to pick just one race myself that would be it.

nothing wrong with it but some members seem to act like "omg a guy with yellow fever, how about you try other girls?" instead of actually trying to answer the question at hand.

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Yes, OP. you are spot on

im an asian guy, and I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. Couple pointers:

1. they never show interest. there is no IOIs, and they are friendly to EVERYBODY.
basically you've gotta show first, then gauge their reaction e.g. *I really like spending time with you* or something equally cheesy. and just hope for the best

2. Not all asians are equal. Mainland girls tend to be a smidgeon more liberal than Taiwaneese girls. Also Taiwaneese girls have been raised in a VERY Conservative environment, so even touching is considered a bit over the social norm (till you good friends, anyway. if you're a stranger to them then it's wtf... wut u doin? creep.)

3. asian girls dont put out till they're in a relationship and/or married. (unless you have those party types, or really drunk at college) so yeah. good luck; have fun.


There are exceptions, however thats generally how it goes.

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Now they just say you have an Asian fetish and it's frowned upon. I gave you the answer stop going after FOB's and go for if your in America, American born Asian girls, you know those asian girls that think they're white girls.

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anyone here had an experience with Taiwanese HB? I'm currently here in Taiwan but having difficulty because of language barrier. I rarely meet a Taiwanese who can speak English and need to think of easy words that they can understand. Maybe some of you have experience sarging here and can give advice. thanks in advance.

WOW SERIOUSLY WTF IS THIS SHIT....

girl is friendly, CHECK 1
girl puts up no resistance CHECK 2
girl is touchy and laughs CHECK 3
china is seriously the most populated place in the world, so asians are obviously dtf, CHECK 4

so where is the damn problem here?, go till she give you a no or resists, are you looking for her to lead or something?, because it isn't going to happen,

it is never what the girl does to you, or says to you, it is what she lets YOU do to her, and what YOU say to her

best way to find out if a girl is interested in you, is test if she passes these tests

test 1)will she talk to you
test 2)will she let you touch her without seeming repulsed or resisting
test 3)will she be alone with you
test 4)will she make out with you
test 5)will she have sex with you

that is all, don't be looking for magical ioi's just see if they pass the tests, if not try to figure out ways to fix these sticking points that are preventing you from passing the tests, if it is physical escalation based, go find a compliance ladder and follow it, if it is talking, go look up some routines or interesting ways to ''gain attraction'', if it is being alone with you, go look up some interesting ways to ''gain comfort'', if it is having sex with you, go look up some ways to handle lmr, these will help improve your chances of her passing the test, but don't guarentee it, sometimes the girl just thinks you are too ugly/lame/smelly and wants nothing to do with you

GOOD LUCK

lmao. +1